7m (國曆)

2008.11.28 滿7個月! 整理你出生到最近的照片才發現,你真的是越來越"古椎", 有一陣子你醜的要命,大家還是愛你愛的很,大咪一天沒看到你都要想你幾回,媽咪外出心裡也是都惦記著你, 生命傳成承的很奇妙.

這兩三天作息正常, 晚上10點多睡可以睡到天亮,半夜夜奶一次,親餵省去溫奶的等待時間. 現在看到媽咪回家一定要先抱抱你,你才會開心. 現在也愛"兌路",每次媽咪出門都有點走不開呢!

Nanaco的挑食其實是遺傳自媽咪,原來遺傳如此神通廣大,已經拉拔過女兒的阿嬤對於你的挑食是處之泰然,現在面對縮小版的＂扔扔仔＂（媽媽小時候的小名）早已見怪不怪．更有趣的事是阿嬤也挑食一族, 阿祖聽了阿嬤的形容後,說到:我女兒挑食,生了個小女兒也挑,現在曾孫也是,那是遺傳啦．（Ｐ/Ｓ你跟阿嬤一樣都不愛地瓜）　

你的個性也像媽, 每當媽咪說nanaco怎麼ooxx,都不怎樣怎樣, 阿嬤就會說：你小時候也是這樣,比如,媽咪說：nanaco怎麼這麼黏我都不找爸爸,阿嬤就會說：你小時候也是,不找你爸,不找里港阿嬤,一定要我背跟我一塊去市場賣東西.我還不是這樣過來.你小時候一定要喝我的奶都吸的扁扁還是要吸.....有其母必有其女!

除了吃叫令人頭痛外,你的學習力倒是不用擔心, 沒人教就會翻身會坐會爬,現在特別喜歡站立扶著走幾步,從沙發上爬下來也知道屁股要先下,要爬上沙發也知道一腳要先跨上去，以前還擔心左腳腳掌外翻會影響日後走路需要矯正,現在觀察走路姿勢還算正常沒大問題! 有次玩健力架,雙手扶著,快倒下去時雙手用力抓上缘的槓桿,呈現吊單槓的姿勢,後來手軟沒力跌下來, 掉下來剛好有軟墊接著也沒看你叫疼. 好厲害!

前幾天大咪幫你洗澡,發現你的身材是有曲線,隔天媽咪接到大咪的call in,大咪說：nanaco手線條很美耶,還有腰身（多多寶現在還是圓滾滾沒有腰身）,原來這也是令人稱羨的地方！嘻嘻.

七個月大的你,看到你的固執不免為你的性格擔心,品德教育也是媽咪希望加強的部分,如何引導你是很大的課題, 讓媽咪好好想想! 希望你以後不僅能夠好好愛自己妥善照顧自己, 同時也能夠照顧有需要的人,做個良善體貼的小美女.

七個月了,看到媽媽的人都說媽咪跟以前不同,以前活脫脫是個小姐,現在多了媽媽味也過肥,聽了這些忠言,有點無奈....其實過肥有解, 去媽媽味難呀! 媽咪心裡生活裡無時無刻不惦記著你,想為你做點什麼,濃濃的媽媽味實在難脫!很愛很愛你,也決定用一輩子的時間好好疼你,退而求其次給自己設個"當辣媽"的目標! 加油!! ^^


　

32 things that changed when you've a baby

What changes when you have a baby? A better question may be: What doesn't change? Here, writer and mom Rebecca Woolf lists her most notable post-baby observations. Then scroll down to read our favorite comments from readers about how their babies changed their lives.

1. You finally stop to smell the roses, because your baby is in your arms.
2. Where you once believed you were fearless, you now find yourself afraid.
3. The sacrifices you thought you made to have a child no longer seem like sacrifices.
4. You respect your body ... finally.
5. You respect your parents and love them in a new way.
6. You find that your baby's pain feels much worse than your own.
7. You believe once again in the things you believed in as a child.
8. You lose touch with the people in your life whom you should have banished years ago.
9. Your heart breaks much more easily.
10. You think of someone else 234,836,178,976 times a day.
11. Every day is a surprise.
12. Bodily functions are no longer repulsive. In fact, they please you. (Hooray for poop!)
13. You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.
14. You become a morning person.
15. Your love becomes limitless, a superhuman power.

And from our readers...
1. "You discover how much there is to say about one tooth."
2. "You finally realize that true joy doesn't come from material wealth."
3. "You now know where the sun comes from."
4. "You'd rather buy a plastic tricycle than those shoes that you've been dying to have."
5. "You realize that although sticky, lollipops have magical powers."
6. "You don't mind going to bed at 9 p.m. on Friday night."
7. "Silence? What's that?"
8. "You realize that the 15 pounds you can't seem to get rid of are totally worth having."
9. "You discover an inner strength you never thought you had."
10. "You no longer rely on a clock — your baby now sets your schedule."
11. "You give parents with a screaming child an 'I-know-the-feeling' look instead of a 'Can't-they-shut-him-up?' one."
12. "Your dog — who used to be your 'baby' — becomes just a dog."
13. "You take the time for one more hug and kiss even if it means you'll be late."
14. "You learn that taking a shower is a luxury."
15. "You realize that you can love a complete stranger."
16. You find yourself wanting to make this world a better place.
17. If you didn’t believe in love at first sight before, now you do!

Source: http://www.babycenter.com/0_thirty-two-things-that-change-when-you-have-a-baby_1452535.bc?scid=momsbaby_20081125:2&pe=2Uwlsex

2008.4.28 15:58

2008.4.28 15:58, nanako哭聲與護士們的歡呼聲一道蹦出來~~~~

10幾分鐘前,媽媽由待產室轉到產房上,躺在產台上,護士們做生產準備的同時也要媽咪自己再用力幾次,產台上的握把確實比較好出力,吸氣吐氣用力推,連續四五次,護士連說:" appear ... appear..." (意思是看到頭髮了), 這時醫生才進入產房,一邊戴手套一邊說:"叫爸爸進來", 孩子的爹進來握住我的手,一個比較壯碩的護士使勁吃奶的力氣往肚子壓,另一方面,寶寶的頭也被機器吸住,下壓時也感受到下體外有股吸力把孩子吸出體外,痛嗎? 沒有感覺了, 痛快倒是真的!

2008.4.25 星期五39週產检,醫生說應該快生了頭變形了,媽媽並沒有生產前的輕鬆感. 爲了幫助生產,星期五產檢完自己散步回家,星期六還逛了家具展,駕訓中心,去景美吃小吃,星期天接獲杜雯阿姨生DD的簡訊,媽咪還懷疑when is my due? 週末舅舅一直催阿嬤北上,27號下午阿嬤到 ,到台北時我跟孩子的爹還在圖書館閒逛,阿嬤看了媽咪的肚子說: 胎頭降應該快生了,27當晚媽咪吃了2.5顆粽子,身體上並無不適..... 還計畫去上班上到4/30. 5/1再休假．

當天晚上媽咪自己睡 (對,自己一個人睡, 孩子的爹呢? 不知道他忙什麼當晚他睡在書房),翻來翻去只覺得一陣陣像月經的陣痛,睡睡醒醒的直到五點,有股便意,起身上廁所一用力落紅了,處理一下回床上躺著,回想護士說的注意事項,注意陣痛的間隔時間....10分鐘兩次 5分鐘一次.... ,約莫六點,阿嬤被媽咪悉悉囌囌整理待產包的聲音吵醒,問道:怎麼了? 我說:落紅了.... 阿嬤連忙說:起來走動,比較快生.. 到了六點半,阿嬤說：＂去叫忎ㄤ起來,＂大夥吃過早餐, 規律的4分鐘陣痛兩次,該去醫院了,

搭上TAXI (沒帶待產包,怕被退貨)抵達婦幼,才七點多,接待人員還問我要不要坐輪椅,當時只覺得好笑,有這麼誇張嗎? 看著幫我開路的警衛,忍不住笑了出來,只不過是一陣陣的痛, 沒那麼痛呀! 進入待產室,護士檢查才發現已經開了2指4CM,這當中睡不著所以起來走動,約11點實在痛了,回去躺著,護士檢查已經4指8CM,阿嬤說以這種程度大概1點多就生完,其實這才是最痛的開始,

中午12點多,寶寶的頭開始在產道用力衝撞,醫生檢查已經開10CM,要媽咪用力,沒上過媽媽教室的我不知道該怎麼用力,護士當場教的我好像也使不上力,肚子痛的要命,嘴巴還得吃東西以保持生產體力...... 生孩子的痛讓人沒力氣哭喊,心裡OS我要開刀卻沒力氣講出來,眼淚也不受控制直流,當 "媽媽加油用力,快出來了"這種鬼話聽多了, 就知道在場everyone is liar! 當下誰的話都不能信,只能靠自己的意志力支撐. 一直到3點,孩子的頭連個影子也沒看見,護士要我變換用力的姿勢,由躺著改成蹲著,這樣確實叫好出力,卻也把痔瘡給蹲出來了(參見後記),頭髮依舊沒有出現, 3點半護士決定送產房請醫生幫忙......

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後記:

原來自己有痔瘡,生產後第二天屁股還是很痛無法自行下床, 經醫生檢查才知道咧,產後足足躺了兩週,20幾天才能四處走動.

台灣司法不公平: 辛苦懷胎痛肚皮生小孩,孩子卻跟爹姓; 萬一離婚男方還說孩子歸他們？ 這是哪門子的歪理?　懷胎生養還不都是＂您娘＂咧

((健兒門診)) 第四回

11/22 週六下午健兒門診

身高: 66cm (量完發現小人躺著,頭卻歪了一邊)
體重:7.8kg (以扣除衣服重量)

隨到隨即看診, 針對脹氣的問題再次向醫生提問,
醫生表示,檢查肚子沒有脹氣,無法判斷夜晚哭泣是否與脹氣有關,
另外她也表示夜啼是很常見的問題,
有時候是因為白天玩的太過導致晚上無法好睡....
此外, NANACO晚上哭醒後很難入睡的問題,
她又說,那就白天讓她玩累一點......
(過與不及還真難拿捏..)

這次打五合一與B肝,左右腳各一針,B肝比較痛,不過也是哭個幾聲就停了 , 勇敢的孩子! 回到家中, 除了大腿痛之外,無其他不適的症狀. 得留意這幾天大腿腫脹是否消除.

新生兒似乎都打了肺炎鏈球桿菌疫苗, (當初護士沒介紹)
這回特地向護士詢問相關事宜,其實剛開始沒打,
7-11 月大可補打後面的三劑,
1歲補打只需兩劑, 2足歲前施打則只打一劑,
費用$3105/劑.
考慮七個月時帶NANACO回來補打吧!
如同買保險一樣,有買有保障!
沒打就是靠自己的抵抗力囉~

另外,也詢問了6個月以上免費施打流感疫苗相關規定, 護士說先自行在家做蛋白過敏原測試,測試方法為:每天蒸全蛋(蛋白+蛋黃+水蒸熟)給寶寶吃,連續2週,如果沒有過敏,即可施打流感疫苗,她表示,有些寶寶吃了兩天就過敏反而又過來就醫治療蛋白過敏.....

7m (農曆)

身高: 69cm
體重: 8kg (含衣服鞋襪)
奶量: 90-100ml, 親餵還是最愛卻是阿嬤最不樂見的,因為都吃半飽.....

2008/11/20
農曆滿七個月! 今天又從床上掉下去了,可憐的孩子, 來看看這個月的Nanaco~~

1. 剪兩次頭髮
Nanaco頭髮長的快, 後腦杓較長的頭髮在小屁哥與阿嬤聯手合作剪好, 這兩天, 額頭的劉海長到老是刺到眼睛,阿嬤看了手癢,經媽咪同意,刷刷刷,三兩下剪出了個型,媽咪很滿意, 沒想到阿媽剪上癮了,隔天回去小人的鬢角跟額頭上的劉海又更短,露出NANACO的肉餅臉,哈哈,好笑捏... 阿!阿嬤寶刀未老~~ (這麼呆的髮型, 讓媽咪不禁又想起小時候阿嬤幫媽咪減頭髮的夢靨,明明說好修短一點,每次卻都被剪的好短好短好短........總讓小小年紀的我陷入黑色漩渦中.......好暈好暈好暈....)

2. 副食品 -
懶惰的媽媽沒特別弄副食品,都是跟著大人吃, 挑軟的給寶貝吃,愛吃香蕉泥&山藥&奇異果,偶爾吃點蛋黃青菜豆腐米餅. 米精吃個兩口就不吃了,目前還無法用副食品抵一餐. 吃進去的青菜通常都是原封不動的拉出來... 阿媽說等你長牙再給你吃稀飯,開始長牙餵副食品才好吸收.

3.奶量-
這幾個星期,每次看到媽咪就愛吸ㄋㄟㄋㄟ,拒絕瓶餵, 所以奶瓶的奶通常都是原封不動的倒掉,避免浪費乾脆直接給你吸,每次看到你"哈"奶的模樣,就覺得好玩,親餵的樂趣媽媽與寶寶才能體會. 由於親餵也省去清洗奶瓶的工作,早上起來奶也不用擠奶,全給你吸的"搭搭",媽媽樂的輕鬆,只擔心"你究竟有沒有吃飽呀?" "存糧夠不夠?" (PS.感恩,舅媽的救援奶!!)

4. 脹氣睡不好
仍舊嚴重,醫生看了藥也吃了,好像還是會脹氣,怎麼辦呢?寶貝仍舊無法一覺到天亮,每次醒來可以再撐2個多小時,也就是12點多起來,可以到2.3.4點才睡.....哭醒了也只找媽媽,唉!

5.體能發展快!
6個多月的NANACO喜歡扶著站起來走兩步,偶爾也會玩到放手(單手或是雙手全放),當然是兩三秒就倒了,應該很快就會走了....... 會不會有蘿蔔腿呀? (擔心)

6.語言發展:
小屁哥示範吃東西說 "A-m"且嘴巴張開, nanaco要吃東西會跟阿嬤說 "价" (吃的台語) .食物到口邊會說 "A-m"

脹氣

從小小就深受脹氣之苦的Nanaco, 過去,好發於午夜１２點多的脹氣，輕微者抹抹脹氣膏,嚴重者泡泡熱水澡即可改善．有大便晚上也會好睡. 過去在健兒門診詢問過醫生,醫生說四個月後就會改善, 也在小兒科問過醫生,可是去看醫生時小人剛好沒脹氣,無法治療．

這兩週,每週都有５６次脹氣,有時白天排便了, 晚上仍舊脹氣無法入睡, 脹氣膏抹了澡也泡了，當下確實已改善好不容易２點多入睡的小人與媽咪, 脹氣毫不留情的在清晨四點多加場演出,極盡挑釁之能,屢屢挑戰媽咪的耐性跟容忍力,折磨小人.母女夜夜不得安眠

今早決定不再忍受, 帶nanaco去看醫生,看診時 nanaco的肚子敲起來 bo bo bo 脹氣未消, 醫生方便檢查：
排便 (現況：兩三天一次,目標：每天）
飲食（現況：母乳＋亂吃，目標：添加果汁, 由稀釋開始漸進到喝原汁，醫生建議現搾柳丁汁，目的以食物幫助腸胃蠕動，避免長期靠藥物排便）

腸胃藥 : 一天四次, 可飯前服用不傷胃; 主治：通氣排便．

吃藥時間是媽咪的頭痛時間,小人畏懼吃藥, 看到針筒就怕,即使強灌吃藥她也有本事全部吐出來,早上阿嬤餵藥, 小人雖有掙扎反抗, 藥沒被吐出來還算順利圓滿,薑還是老的辣,阿嬤厲害！！

到公司, uncle LOBO開玩笑的說：小孩脹氣要是跟輪胎消氣一樣, 針筒一插就消氣那就省事不少! 哈,LOBO愛說笑捏...

Stranger Anxiety

Nanaco has stranger Anxiety since she was 2 month old.... Now, it seems not improved.

Couple weeks ago, we attended a wedding receiption, Nanaco went with us. People loved to play with Nanaco but she didn't get use to it. For example, when we waited an elevator going down to lobby, she kept looking at someone new. When that one noticed her and smile & talking to her, she starts making "em..... em....." sounds. Warming people keep away from her.

An expert said it is "Your baby is going through one of her first emotional — stranger anxiety. Children this age become very clingy and anxious around new and even familiar people and may cry if suddenly approached by a stranger. Your child may also be more anxious around new people when she's tired, hungry, or sick. Keep this in mind when you're around people she doesn't know, and try not to be upset or embarrassed when she cries in someone else's arms. To calm her down, take her back and hold her yourself. If you explain that your child is going through a normal phase, your friends will understand. Tell them that when they approach the baby, slow gentle movements will produce less anxiety than sudden ones. If your child refuses to be held by a friend or relative, try a slow desensitization process. First, work on having her be comfortable in your arms while the other person is around. Then, have the person talk and play with your child while you hold her. Then, hand him over to the other person for a short time and stay close. Finally, try to leave the room for a few minutes, and see how it goes. If your child bawls, try again. Go in and out of the room and eventually, your child will be secure in the knowledge that even though you're not around at the moment, you'll always return shortly.

Tried above method last Sunday when Auntie Alice and her sister came to visit us. It helps!

CD

偶爾給Nanaco聽聽音樂, 最近電視廣告有一支是交響樂開頭,nanaco每次聽到那音樂一定會抬頭起來找找音樂的來源,我猜可能是平時聽音樂產生的共鳴， 更加印證了生活教育的成效.

以後,應該會讓nanaco上讀經班,現在買了三字經跟唐詩CD早早啟蒙,，上下班時可以play或者唸給寶貝聽,不止nanaco聽,連媽咪重讀三字經也覺得意涵深遠唷！

Nanaco睡覺一定得搖搖唱歌,媽咪唱來唱去都是那幾首歌,目前nanaco聽了會睡著的有虎姑婆,還有十幾年前的情歌ㄟ． 只好買童謠CD 回來練唱囉
　
新貨到(用信用卡點數換購的CD）:
*台語歌謠
*英文歌謠ＡＢＣ
*兩隻老虎(國語歌謠）
*小蜜蜂（國語歌謠）
*三字經
*唐詩吟唱

穿什麼保暖呢?

Nanaco平時穿上衣+褲子(短褲or 長褲)+背心,這樣利落好爬,通常手心腳掌都熱熱的.

阿嬤對Nanaco的穿著通常是沒意見的,不過每次看到穿兔裝的Nanaco就會大力稱讚: "對啦,這樣比較保暖." (媽咪通常都把兔裝當外套穿,到羅斯福路家中就可以脫掉). 穿的像胖胖熊,真的比較保暖嗎?

昨晚較冷,給寶貝穿厚兔裝 (裡頭還穿一件薄上衣),寶貝的手腳卻是冰冷的,試著外加T 恤,整隻臃腫的像一頭小熊也像穿了整護具的橄欖球員(喝!粗勇), 小人爬呢爬不了,坐呢搖搖晃晃像個球似的(好好笑!).最後給他換上薄兔裝 +厚T恤, 比較好活動,但是依舊手腳冰冷咳嗽連連,只好再穿上絨布長褲,這才止咳也夠暖活.

要讓Nanaco活動自如,也許幫寶貝添購厚褲襪吧! (嘻嘻,寶貝你是媽咪的芭比娃娃 ^^)

Not about Formula

After trying couple of brands, we still have no lucks to find a milk powder that Nanaco accepts. People said Meji that Japan origined is widenly accepted by breast feeding babies, and I think I should give it a try. I try hard to find this brand but Nanaco doesn't like it, either. She would rather drinking water than powder milk.

Grandpa joked that it's your daughter! She said: "Nanaco is similar to you. When you're baby, you rejected milk powder, either. You don't like Meji, either (also origin in Japan)! I remembered clearly that I rode bicycle for one hr to buy 1kg of fresh milk for you everyday. Yes, 1kg & everyday! Just fresh milk otherwise, you prefer not drinking anything "

Now I realise it's not about what formula of the milk powder. It's about the smell and taste. Fresh Breast milk is ordor free... Probably taste like water....... (I never try it before). Luckily, P's mom sponsored her milk for Nanaco.

Nanaco, when you grow up, you must be thankful to Auntie Lingru!

喜宴

10月份起,小倆口決定牽手一起走下半輩子的不在少數,朋友中有8對佳偶年底前結婚,這張是我收到的喜帖中最特別的一張,愛心是兩人的手指印構成的,有心心相印也有永結同心的意思.

喜帖的中文也讓人讀來很感動,簡單的幾行字道出雙方家長對即將自組小家庭的新人的愛與期許~~親情難能可貴!

中文如下:

喜宴

我們的孩子 oo 與 xx

許下結婚的溫暖信守

期待您的祝福與分享

見證他們一生重要的時刻

醒來自己玩

之前, Nanaco醒來沒看到人一定大哭,
媽咪有時會順便跟她說: 不用哭,叫媽咪,媽咪就來了!
昨晚,自己睡醒的NANACO只聽到她ㄞ一聲後就沒有下文
在浴室盥洗的媽咪以為她又睡著了,沒有馬上出來看看她,
等媽咪出來後, 發現小人自己爬下來玩了, 還笑咪咪的迎接媽咪出現!

My Baby, I am proud of you!

閱讀

還沒當媽媽前,就很推崇外國孩子寢前讀 bedtime story的習慣,

懷孕時只知道要多跟孩子說說話,拙於言詞的媽咪,卻不知道講什麼好,
於是就寢前講picture story,
唸著念著,有時媽咪也被繪本的情節給逗笑了,很有趣!

經歷生產坐月子等...六個月的適應期,
nanaco坐的穩也會爬爬,玩具也有玩膩了的時候,
不知道還有什麼把戲可以跟孩子玩,
媽咪覺得是引導孩子閱讀的時候了
(媽咪愛看書, 私心的期望培養nanaco愛閱讀的習慣,
未來可以是興趣也是無形的資產)
又去圖書館借了 picture story,
不同以往看到什麼東西都往嘴巴塞 ,
nanaco看到書(書名:怕浪費的奶奶)
可以耐著性子看圖聽媽咪說故事耶....
看來 該是去申請家庭借書證的時候了!

最近為孩子閱讀選書做準備,媽咪正在讀幾本書:
**為故事書長大的孩子
**遇見圖畫書的百年經典
**好繪本,如何好?
這些書介紹 唸書給孩子聽的動機,如何選書等等題材,值得收藏的入門書!

我的寶貝, 希望媽咪可以持之以恆的唸故事書給你聽.
(感恩我的母親留在台北帶我的女兒,
讓我可以依自己的方式教養女兒,陪她成長)

洗澡書

最近nanaco 看到他熟悉的事物, 多半會發出 ㄟ～～～的共鳴聲,
例如：
媽咪抱著他開水龍頭,他會：ㄟ～～　
看到浴巾,澡盆,洗澡書, 她也會ㄟ~~~

寶貝已經會坐,所以在澡盆裡加入了洗澡書, 書裡是一些卡通動物,顏色豐富一本8面,翻完一本等於泡澡完畢,母女兩洗澡的畫面多半是媽咪翻書頁,這是牛牛,nanaco就把書頁拿起來啃, 這是狗狗,小人看了看又把書也拿起來啃一啃,一本翻完她也吃下了8種動物,哈哈!

改天再去買小鴨鴨來陪你洗澡囉!