媽祖寶寶,一歲!
很難回答這是你看過的第幾個蛋糕,但昨晚的蛋糕是你專屬的喔. 阿嬤,舅舅,把把媽咪,大咪大姨丈還有出力出聲音的多多寶,大家一起為你慶生,成為主角的你感覺上有點怯生生地又有點好奇,偎著媽咪看著蛋糕,還想用手碰觸感覺一下蛋糕手感,老實說一歲沒什麼了不起,卻不簡單呢.
整整一年,今天不知怎麼的媽媽覺得特別的累. 還記得當天晚上你在媽咪身邊躺著發出的第一個聲音, 好像知道身邊的是媽媽似的....印象深刻. 問自己這一年是怎麼熬過來的? 還真沒有答案呢,總的來說媽媽不是人當的,很累很胖很有壓力卻很快樂. 媽咪沒有寫信給一歲的你, 只希望我們一起回顧生活的點點滴滴... 謝謝爹娘,外婆,舅媽的ㄋㄟㄋㄟ.. 以及所以疼愛你的親朋好友.
還記得07/7中旬,去訪一個濟公師父,他問把把何時要娶媽咪? 我們一驚, 回說:已經結婚了, 當下他就說:生個龍子龍女,全家都開心,怎麼不生? 當時,聽聽只覺得無厘頭,生小孩要計畫,要錢.... 怎麼能說生就生? 人算不如天算,就再把把跟媽媽計畫去蜜月旅行時,你已經悄悄的在媽咪的子宮裡舒服的住下來. 真的是悄悄的來,媽咪還一度誤以為自己年紀大老化把自己腸胃搞壞了,後來發現你的心跳時的那種心情是意外的愉快! 我要當媽媽了! 那是07/9月
你很幸運,有外婆北上照顧你,前三個月外婆24小時全心呵護,讓你的成長一極棒,說那時的你是個胖子也不過分,不過就在多多寶出生後,媽咪晚上自己帶你,整整三個月,你的成長非常緩慢,長高兩三公分,體重也只增加2/3公斤.顯示出阿嬤跟新手媽媽的差別囉. 打從娘胎出生, 你的模樣還真讓人擔心:小小的眼睛,大大薄薄的嘴巴,怎麼看都不像媽咪.看過你的人也都會告訴爸把要多賺點嫁妝,大咪說等你長大後要帶你去割大眼睛,幸好,前三個月有阿嬤幫你調整,現在眼睛大一點外加櫻桃小口的氣質小美女了! 除了變漂亮之外,出生時的左腳外翻也在阿嬤的巧手按摩下慢慢的恢復,行動敏捷,五個多月就會爬讓阿嬤非常的驕傲,反應快,漂亮,行動力強,你可以說是阿嬤改良成功的最佳範本!你有今天的一切都得好好感謝你的外婆阿嬤! 也得謝謝外公的體諒,願意讓阿嬤在台北long stay.
你的氣管弱,常常感冒喀嗽,對於醫生開的要總是抗拒,看了好幾次醫生,始終沒醫好,最後終於找到了鄰居伯伯推薦的好醫生,醫好了你的咳嗽. 現在,一個醫生看感冒,一個看皮膚,婦幼則去打預防針.
每次上車,你總會以很甜的聲音叫把把, 把把把,難怪人家說女兒是父親上輩子的情人,你的爹也是被你這麼一叫迷的神魂顛倒,一句把把就可以讓你爹把錢掏出來買尿布,付醫藥費,買這個買那個, 我猜他上輩子欠你的這輩子還.
從餵奶換尿布洗澡到睡覺幾乎都是媽媽全包,雖然辛苦,但在昨天的紅包事件後,就覺得娘沒有白疼了.昨晚把把包了紅包給你,你遞給媽咪,後來把把將紅包拿去,你連忙從他手中抽出紅包再轉給媽咪,這樣做就對了,錢收了要記得給媽咪.
從書亂翻,到現在可以坐定跟媽咪共讀一兩本小書,媽咪覺得很欣慰,從只會跳小星星到隨著音樂擺頭起舞,從把椅子翻過來玩,到現在會自己坐在小椅子上等人餵飯,從等人給零食到現在會自己拿零食要大人打開,東西會跟多多寶分享,媽咪看到你的成長,社會化與自主性建立. 經歷過什麼東西都放嘴裡的階段,到現在很愛假哭,阿嬤說下個階段就是不理人的臭小孩囉... 只能臭頭孩子,娘愛!
PS:紀錄一下最近的發展:
*用手拜拜: 會拜拜早已是三四個月前的事,最近流行一進門雙手合十對菩薩膜拜,媽咪總不忘幫你說:菩薩我回來了,謝謝你保佑我平安長大,希望你保佑把把賺很多很多錢.
*獨自站立: 現在很愛站著,不需任何扶助, 自己站直直的,可以站好幾秒,手上拿東西還可以走幾步.
*愛灰:自從從南部回來,變的很愛假哭 (多多寶變的更活潑更好動,會翻身了一天總要從床上摔下來幾次,曬黑的多多寶居然比較像大咪耶), 會指著她要的東西哭,很難矯正椰.
28.4.09
27.4.09
I miss you
2009/4/22
It's your 1st trip, travelled with grandma to Kaoshiung. Mom did not accompany with you. You're happy when grandma wore the red coat and carried you. When we were walking out of door, you said "Go" and smiling. Usually, you go to Dan-Shuei with Grandma to visit grandgrand ma, so you're excited to go out. This time, it is a long journey. You were going to Kaohsiung because grandpa's leg was hurt and swollen. Too swollen to walk, so grandma decided to carried you and rush back because you are the one she cared the most. Dodobao and Da-mi went with you, too for checking what's happening to grandpa. It turned out that you and dodobao stayed in Kaohsiung till grandpa is recovery.
It's okay with Mom in daytime. But when night came, your image kept jump out of my mind. Every step I walked, I thought of you. When I was in MRT, I saw a little girl like your age, I can't help but think of you. I have to bear the tears.... When I was on Muzha line, I think the day that I go to work after you was 2 month old. I remeber that time, I was happy to take MRT home becasue I saw you when I was home. Not this time.... I was home all alone. I teared on the bus.. No one found becasue of darkness. I was upstair and saw your toys spread everywhere in our living room. I cried.... I miss you so much.... This is our 1st seperation. Dami and Daddy said just pretend that you go to a vocation and will return couple of days. Yes, but it is eaier to say. We stick to each other 359 nights, so it's a torture to sleep without you. I went to bed and saw your pillow, I am painful for seeing that empty space.... That night, mom fall asleep at 3.00am. It's a long night. Next day I wear a pair of swollen eyes to office.
Day 2, I finally got a chance to talk to grandma. Grandma told that you're getting used to life in Koahsiung. You were happy to go downstair and to meet new people. The most important thing is grandma told mom that we can go home and bring you back to Taipei during the weekend. It's great to know that. I finally can enjoy rest of day 2 & night 2 because we can meet each other the next night. I can finish all jobs and go for some errands and had a date with Daddy... It's not bad.
Day 3, it's the day! I had good mood. It's the best thing that I can hold you tightly that night. The wonderful thing is that I stayed in Luju for following 2 nights. I was hurt when I saw you because you don't recognise mom when I stood in front of you. It took a while for you to refresh and recognize... When we upstair, you finally know that mommy is here and very closed to me. I can feel that you missed me, too.
Day 4, Grandma can take care of you 2. Da-mi and I went for shopping. Though time is short, we feel good. Just like the good old time. (when we were single) Then Sat. afternoon, grandpa drove us to 3rd uncle grandpa's place. That's your 1st time to meet these relatives. We've happy time there.
Day 5, go to sweet home. Grandma will go to Taipei on Monday morning.
It's your 1st trip, travelled with grandma to Kaoshiung. Mom did not accompany with you. You're happy when grandma wore the red coat and carried you. When we were walking out of door, you said "Go" and smiling. Usually, you go to Dan-Shuei with Grandma to visit grandgrand ma, so you're excited to go out. This time, it is a long journey. You were going to Kaohsiung because grandpa's leg was hurt and swollen. Too swollen to walk, so grandma decided to carried you and rush back because you are the one she cared the most. Dodobao and Da-mi went with you, too for checking what's happening to grandpa. It turned out that you and dodobao stayed in Kaohsiung till grandpa is recovery.
It's okay with Mom in daytime. But when night came, your image kept jump out of my mind. Every step I walked, I thought of you. When I was in MRT, I saw a little girl like your age, I can't help but think of you. I have to bear the tears.... When I was on Muzha line, I think the day that I go to work after you was 2 month old. I remeber that time, I was happy to take MRT home becasue I saw you when I was home. Not this time.... I was home all alone. I teared on the bus.. No one found becasue of darkness. I was upstair and saw your toys spread everywhere in our living room. I cried.... I miss you so much.... This is our 1st seperation. Dami and Daddy said just pretend that you go to a vocation and will return couple of days. Yes, but it is eaier to say. We stick to each other 359 nights, so it's a torture to sleep without you. I went to bed and saw your pillow, I am painful for seeing that empty space.... That night, mom fall asleep at 3.00am. It's a long night. Next day I wear a pair of swollen eyes to office.
Day 2, I finally got a chance to talk to grandma. Grandma told that you're getting used to life in Koahsiung. You were happy to go downstair and to meet new people. The most important thing is grandma told mom that we can go home and bring you back to Taipei during the weekend. It's great to know that. I finally can enjoy rest of day 2 & night 2 because we can meet each other the next night. I can finish all jobs and go for some errands and had a date with Daddy... It's not bad.
Day 3, it's the day! I had good mood. It's the best thing that I can hold you tightly that night. The wonderful thing is that I stayed in Luju for following 2 nights. I was hurt when I saw you because you don't recognise mom when I stood in front of you. It took a while for you to refresh and recognize... When we upstair, you finally know that mommy is here and very closed to me. I can feel that you missed me, too.
Day 4, Grandma can take care of you 2. Da-mi and I went for shopping. Though time is short, we feel good. Just like the good old time. (when we were single) Then Sat. afternoon, grandpa drove us to 3rd uncle grandpa's place. That's your 1st time to meet these relatives. We've happy time there.
Day 5, go to sweet home. Grandma will go to Taipei on Monday morning.
抓週
4/18週六.
早在寶貝出生時,阿嬤就買了許多漂亮的衣服跟帽子帶到台北,準備幫寶貝做週歲, 也吩咐媽咪買推車, 在過年時又開始操煩娘家的餅要送幾個? 跟親家約幾點? 紅包要包多少? 金飾要買什麼? 再添幾件衣服. 還缺一雙鞋...等等.
4月初跟婆婆約了時間娘家要幫女兒做週歲,老人家口頭說不用不用,生女兒不用這麼厚工,原本我也擔心娘家一頭熱, 幸好,當天該做都做了,很開心的祭祖,送餅,抓週. 寶貝的爷爷也終於知道nanako的名字,不再"妹妹" "妹妹"的叫.
當天把把上班,所以約了下午抓週,順便請親家在家中吃的便飯,大姑姑很厲害的變出一桌好豐盛又好吃的晚餐,nanako戴上阿嬤買的金飾,阿嬤看了笑說帶的這麼漂亮,好像要出嫁了似的.爸把準備了計算機,布料,筆,尺，麥克風，手機，笛子，鏟子，球等等抓週的物品,nanako看到那麼多東西,不等把把介紹完,整隻抓都抓不住的往前爬,先拿了計算機, 又抓起麥克風，眼看還有那麼多東西在籃子裡,乾脆整盤拿起來用倒的,看她這麼破壞性的舉動大夥也急了,allen哥拿了水彩筆給她,接手後,寶貝拿著當毛筆寫起來.. 抓週, 純粹好玩囉！
早在寶貝出生時,阿嬤就買了許多漂亮的衣服跟帽子帶到台北,準備幫寶貝做週歲, 也吩咐媽咪買推車, 在過年時又開始操煩娘家的餅要送幾個? 跟親家約幾點? 紅包要包多少? 金飾要買什麼? 再添幾件衣服. 還缺一雙鞋...等等.
4月初跟婆婆約了時間娘家要幫女兒做週歲,老人家口頭說不用不用,生女兒不用這麼厚工,原本我也擔心娘家一頭熱, 幸好,當天該做都做了,很開心的祭祖,送餅,抓週. 寶貝的爷爷也終於知道nanako的名字,不再"妹妹" "妹妹"的叫.
當天把把上班,所以約了下午抓週,順便請親家在家中吃的便飯,大姑姑很厲害的變出一桌好豐盛又好吃的晚餐,nanako戴上阿嬤買的金飾,阿嬤看了笑說帶的這麼漂亮,好像要出嫁了似的.爸把準備了計算機,布料,筆,尺，麥克風，手機，笛子，鏟子，球等等抓週的物品,nanako看到那麼多東西,不等把把介紹完,整隻抓都抓不住的往前爬,先拿了計算機, 又抓起麥克風，眼看還有那麼多東西在籃子裡,乾脆整盤拿起來用倒的,看她這麼破壞性的舉動大夥也急了,allen哥拿了水彩筆給她,接手後,寶貝拿著當毛筆寫起來.. 抓週, 純粹好玩囉！
20.4.09
1 year old (農曆)
4/18 Nanako 一歲!!! 越來越社會化,看看你進展到什麼程度?
愛水:
1.週歲, 阿嬤(當然是外婆)特地帶你去做造型綁頭髮,一向愛漂亮的你也乖乖給婆婆綁頭髮,漂亮極了.
愛水:
1.週歲, 阿嬤(當然是外婆)特地帶你去做造型綁頭髮,一向愛漂亮的你也乖乖給婆婆綁頭髮,漂亮極了.
2.會自己挑喜歡的衣服穿
3. 很愛穿鞋 (會說鞋的台語)
肢體發展:
1. 會教多多寶爬,拉多多寶的手腳,再自行示範,教個兩次就自己爬去其他地方玩
2. 偶爾會放走站個半分鐘,或者自行站立走兩步.
3. 會跳小星星
4. 很愛拿筆在紙上畫,原本擔心拿筆會刺傷自己,長時間觀察下來,發現得擔心他是否把筆放到嘴吧咬或者刺傷多多寶之外,根本不需要擔心他會自殘.跟長指甲一樣,長長的指甲,只會抓別人的臉,少有抓傷自己的情況.
5. 會扭動身體跳舞
6. 會拿著零食要人家打開給她吃
7. 吹毛毛時 會自己撥頭髮
8. 大咪幫她洗香香時,洗完左手原本要吃手的她發現洗過的手香香的居然主動伸出右手給大咪洗.
9. 會拿遙控器給阿媽開電視,再叫"寶寶" (意思是告訴多多寶有電視看囉),任務完成後自己跑去其他地方玩.
10.會將背對著電視的寶寶轉向,轉到面對電視,
11. bye bye, kiss bye都會,但做不做就看得心情囉.
12. 聽到媽咪說{不行,不能放嘴吧}時,會跟著搖頭表示不行.
語言發展:
1. nanako對多多寶說: {不行, 這個不行.}
2. nanako搶大咪的水杯沒成功,自己對大咪說: {黑足"燒"} (那很燙)
3.會以比手畫腳的方式跟多多寶說她去了哪裡做了哪些事.例如:去淡水回來, 她看到多多寶就指著窗外(我出去),手彎來彎去(搭捷運), bla bla bla..... 多多寶輒以呃呃呃回應.
4. 會主動叫把把
5. 有天,坐著的nanako抖了一下,阿媽說:放尿(台語),尿完之後的nanako跟著說:我ㄉㄟ放尿(我在尿尿)
1. nanako對多多寶說: {不行, 這個不行.}
2. nanako搶大咪的水杯沒成功,自己對大咪說: {黑足"燒"} (那很燙)
3.會以比手畫腳的方式跟多多寶說她去了哪裡做了哪些事.例如:去淡水回來, 她看到多多寶就指著窗外(我出去),手彎來彎去(搭捷運), bla bla bla..... 多多寶輒以呃呃呃回應.
4. 會主動叫把把
5. 有天,坐著的nanako抖了一下,阿媽說:放尿(台語),尿完之後的nanako跟著說:我ㄉㄟ放尿(我在尿尿)
6. 大便賴著大咪換尿布時,大咪問你大便? 回應: "黑",接著又對大咪說:大便很臭,大咪以為自己聽錯了,問她:你說大便很臭? Nanako回:"黑"
{偶有驚人之語,多半是四五個字組成的句子}
會分享:
1.對她說不可以搶玩具,如果要多多寶手上的玩具得拿一樣玩具跟多多寶換,會照著做,但是多多寶不配合的話,寶貝就會把玩具丟給她再動手搶多寶寶手上的玩具.
2.小穎哭時會很大方的把手上的玩具給小穎,還會摸摸小穎的臉頰. 就像她照顧多寶寶一樣.
3.請她拿糖果給把把,她會從盒子裡拿好幾個給把把
4. 跟她說謝謝,就可以從她手上把東西拿起來, (還不會說謝謝 也不會點頭道謝)
{偶有驚人之語,多半是四五個字組成的句子}
會分享:
1.對她說不可以搶玩具,如果要多多寶手上的玩具得拿一樣玩具跟多多寶換,會照著做,但是多多寶不配合的話,寶貝就會把玩具丟給她再動手搶多寶寶手上的玩具.
2.小穎哭時會很大方的把手上的玩具給小穎,還會摸摸小穎的臉頰. 就像她照顧多寶寶一樣.
3.請她拿糖果給把把,她會從盒子裡拿好幾個給把把
4. 跟她說謝謝,就可以從她手上把東西拿起來, (還不會說謝謝 也不會點頭道謝)
7.4.09
5.4.09
遊基隆
清明孩子的爹難得放兩天假,回南部的日子也訂在寶貝滿週歲當週,把把幾天前就興奮的說要好好計畫一起去玩, 去哪玩呢? 其實媽咪心裡還是掛念著只完成一點點的論文literature review.... 去玩,還真的有點心不在焉..星期五,把把睡前還說一早先去洗車,那要去九份還是拉拉山.. 媽咪僅疲累的回應:都很遠..... 結果,把把果然很早起, 洗衣服,整理家裡, 七點多出門洗車,回來時順便爲我們帶早餐,用完早餐,寶貝照例再睡個回籠覺,約莫10點出發.... 往基隆去.
4/4 聽說是兒童節也剛好是清明,下了高速公路,先繞道砲台,還真是個好地方! 原以為會很熱,但靠海的砲台,吹著海風挺舒服的, 站在砲台較高的位置上, 俯瞰大海, 廣闊湛藍的海讓人壓力完全釋放開來,好舒服喔. nanako可以在草地上與把把並肩坐著,明明就只有11個月大，但是看著那穿戴整齊的寶貝坐在草地上, 彷彿一下子就已經大到可以牽手散步聊天看風景似的, 這感覺好特別喔!
接著,去鬥牛士用餐, 基隆的是32F景觀餐廳,服務生帶我們到靠窗的沙發上,位子很棒, 剛好可以讓寶貝爬上爬下有足夠的活動空間,也可以遠眺基隆港，餐點也很優, 不知是靠海的關係這裡的雪魚特大片魚肉彈牙新鮮,寶寶跟媽媽都吃的很開心，法式豬排也是很讚,肉質軟硬是中,好吃!當中還發生小哥哥要跟nanako玩來抱把把大腿的情形,我笑著對孩子的爹說：生女兒就是會有男生主動跑來抱你的大腿～ 有了孩子之後,連用餐時間都拉長了,吃了將近兩個小時才離開．
上車,母女兩都累了,就在nanako要睡著之際,下個景點又到了,忘了是什麼廟,只覺得好玩,因為廟跟攤販結合,吃的玩的都在菩薩面前,拜拜後我們坐在石階上等把把,上車後母女兩開始昏睡, 錯過了兩個景點,再爭開眼已經再往黃金博物館的路上．
黃金博物館,入園門票100/人, 最近(3-5月份）可用發票抵換入場,環境規劃的不錯唷, 不過帶嬰幼來玩,因地處山區上上下下走起來,我們都腿軟了．跟nanako一起逛,再展覽舘看到展示品她會出聲音發表意見,逛起來是滿有趣的．回程, 買了大排長龍的黃金泡芙,好吃～～ 再往瑞芳吃晚餐,順便買個日用品再回家.
基隆－木柵,只要30-40分鐘的車程,是短程旅遊不錯的選擇
4/4 聽說是兒童節也剛好是清明,下了高速公路,先繞道砲台,還真是個好地方! 原以為會很熱,但靠海的砲台,吹著海風挺舒服的, 站在砲台較高的位置上, 俯瞰大海, 廣闊湛藍的海讓人壓力完全釋放開來,好舒服喔. nanako可以在草地上與把把並肩坐著,明明就只有11個月大，但是看著那穿戴整齊的寶貝坐在草地上, 彷彿一下子就已經大到可以牽手散步聊天看風景似的, 這感覺好特別喔!
接著,去鬥牛士用餐, 基隆的是32F景觀餐廳,服務生帶我們到靠窗的沙發上,位子很棒, 剛好可以讓寶貝爬上爬下有足夠的活動空間,也可以遠眺基隆港，餐點也很優, 不知是靠海的關係這裡的雪魚特大片魚肉彈牙新鮮,寶寶跟媽媽都吃的很開心，法式豬排也是很讚,肉質軟硬是中,好吃!當中還發生小哥哥要跟nanako玩來抱把把大腿的情形,我笑著對孩子的爹說：生女兒就是會有男生主動跑來抱你的大腿～ 有了孩子之後,連用餐時間都拉長了,吃了將近兩個小時才離開．
上車,母女兩都累了,就在nanako要睡著之際,下個景點又到了,忘了是什麼廟,只覺得好玩,因為廟跟攤販結合,吃的玩的都在菩薩面前,拜拜後我們坐在石階上等把把,上車後母女兩開始昏睡, 錯過了兩個景點,再爭開眼已經再往黃金博物館的路上．
黃金博物館,入園門票100/人, 最近(3-5月份）可用發票抵換入場,環境規劃的不錯唷, 不過帶嬰幼來玩,因地處山區上上下下走起來,我們都腿軟了．跟nanako一起逛,再展覽舘看到展示品她會出聲音發表意見,逛起來是滿有趣的．回程, 買了大排長龍的黃金泡芙,好吃～～ 再往瑞芳吃晚餐,順便買個日用品再回家.
基隆－木柵,只要30-40分鐘的車程,是短程旅遊不錯的選擇
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