Joyce:
還是沒運動,不過這一週改變飲食,體重有稍稍的回來一點,早餐改掉喀饅頭喝二合一的習慣,午餐簡單吃,晚餐吃少一點,二合一(咖啡+奶) or 三合一byebye, 大概是這一週體重減輕的重點吧...還有還有週四跟週五各走路40分鐘...可能也燃燒了一點脂肪 ( New low this month: 50.7kg)
起先是疲倦,然後對小孩火氣很大的一週.. 因為週四跟週五有"我們家的王大哥" (their daddy)接送小孩,讓媽媽有一點點上班前走點路的小確幸,因此feel much better.
有時候覺得孩子應該要表現好一點,對孩子要求過高導致孩子怯懦,媽媽要好好檢討,也許到了晚上,大家都累了,學習不要那麼心急,那麼輕易的把自己的喜怒哀樂加諸再孩子的表現上....
Nanako:
Monday night, a bad night for Nanako and me. When girls arrived, Nanako cried and asked me to go downstairs to bring her up from 1st floor. She cried very loudly and momoko already went upstairs herself. I told her to go up herself, but she did no, just kept crying. I was so angry that she can't do that her own, momoko is 2.5 years younger than her can did it, why she can't??? Go home from 1st floor to 3rd floor ONLY....and make so much noise to neighbor.so, I lost control and lost temper, too. I went downstairs to beat her up. And it is like a volcano erupt, when she went upstairs, I yelled at her for being so princess.. if she were a princess, she picked wrong family to be with. And I am anger at her for being so chicken, scared of dark, always said she is lonely if parents are not be with her. These made me mad!!! Worst of that is my behavior.. I am bad mom..
The other day is that she did not do well in her counting. (二位數心算卡) I know she can count but count is a wrong way, the way that slow her speed and often count it wrong. I taught her a way, and she said teacher taught before but she did not get it, which made me mad immediately... So two of us lost patience, and she got tired already, so her performance is really bad... It is another case that mom lets out of anger so easily.
Rest of days, she seems a good girl. Get up early, eat breakfast and waiting bus and go to school on time.
Momoko:
It was a long Tuesday night, daddy can't pick kids up so mommy had to do it by myself. I pick Momoko up and on our way to pick Nanako up, everything seems to be fine. But.. after I added Nanako's easy care and nanako wanted to buy candy as her reward, but Momoko is not allowed because she did not win any reward, then Momoko got angry for not buying candy. So she lost temper in public (at 7-11, in front of a food store, which we originally intended to eat dinner there and in bus stop. She yelled and cried loudly when we wait for bus. It is about a 30 min in the hell, and it is so embarrassment to have an annoying cry kid around. Nanako kept told her sister softly for putting on the jacket and put her school bag, but Momoko did not listen, she just cried.... A tough Tuesday night!
還是沒運動,不過這一週改變飲食,體重有稍稍的回來一點,早餐改掉喀饅頭喝二合一的習慣,午餐簡單吃,晚餐吃少一點,二合一(咖啡+奶) or 三合一byebye, 大概是這一週體重減輕的重點吧...還有還有週四跟週五各走路40分鐘...可能也燃燒了一點脂肪 ( New low this month: 50.7kg)
起先是疲倦,然後對小孩火氣很大的一週.. 因為週四跟週五有"我們家的王大哥" (their daddy)接送小孩,讓媽媽有一點點上班前走點路的小確幸,因此feel much better.
有時候覺得孩子應該要表現好一點,對孩子要求過高導致孩子怯懦,媽媽要好好檢討,也許到了晚上,大家都累了,學習不要那麼心急,那麼輕易的把自己的喜怒哀樂加諸再孩子的表現上....
Nanako:
Monday night, a bad night for Nanako and me. When girls arrived, Nanako cried and asked me to go downstairs to bring her up from 1st floor. She cried very loudly and momoko already went upstairs herself. I told her to go up herself, but she did no, just kept crying. I was so angry that she can't do that her own, momoko is 2.5 years younger than her can did it, why she can't??? Go home from 1st floor to 3rd floor ONLY....and make so much noise to neighbor.so, I lost control and lost temper, too. I went downstairs to beat her up. And it is like a volcano erupt, when she went upstairs, I yelled at her for being so princess.. if she were a princess, she picked wrong family to be with. And I am anger at her for being so chicken, scared of dark, always said she is lonely if parents are not be with her. These made me mad!!! Worst of that is my behavior.. I am bad mom..
The other day is that she did not do well in her counting. (二位數心算卡) I know she can count but count is a wrong way, the way that slow her speed and often count it wrong. I taught her a way, and she said teacher taught before but she did not get it, which made me mad immediately... So two of us lost patience, and she got tired already, so her performance is really bad... It is another case that mom lets out of anger so easily.
Rest of days, she seems a good girl. Get up early, eat breakfast and waiting bus and go to school on time.
Momoko:
It was a long Tuesday night, daddy can't pick kids up so mommy had to do it by myself. I pick Momoko up and on our way to pick Nanako up, everything seems to be fine. But.. after I added Nanako's easy care and nanako wanted to buy candy as her reward, but Momoko is not allowed because she did not win any reward, then Momoko got angry for not buying candy. So she lost temper in public (at 7-11, in front of a food store, which we originally intended to eat dinner there and in bus stop. She yelled and cried loudly when we wait for bus. It is about a 30 min in the hell, and it is so embarrassment to have an annoying cry kid around. Nanako kept told her sister softly for putting on the jacket and put her school bag, but Momoko did not listen, she just cried.... A tough Tuesday night!
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