9/9 , 6點往機場出發,延宕兩三個月的蜜月終於成行,居然成了三人行,令人錯愕!(第三人免費,這金牛寶寶在媽媽肚子裡就開始精打細算)!
出發前的小插曲,我們兩個人的座位一個在中間一個在機尾,看到時我就火冒三丈,送機人員不僅沒有歉意還辯說可以換,明明就是旅行社的疏失,還狡辯,誰不知道可以換,問題是隔這麼遠方便換嗎? 這是MINI TOUR應有的待遇嗎?如果今天我們花團費一兩萬成行,那我OKAY,問題是比別人貴的價格卻得到這種待遇, 真是令人憤憤不平. 孩子的爹就很緊張啦 趕緊說笑轉移我的情緒
由於晚睡早起,我在飛機上昏睡了5個小時,扣除0.5小時用餐時間,在半睡半醒之間已經抵達巴里島,島上的國際機場感覺很local呢! 外國人居多. 我們辦落地簽時,金髮碧眼的阿嘟仔大多拿20美元買長期的落地簽,想必是去relax.
前兩晚我們入住日航酒店,很棒的酒店喔, 海景,海風讓人心曠神怡,光是在飯店享受沙灘美女彷彿就真的來到了神仙島了呢~ 快活! 飯店舊了點,不過還算舒適.後兩晚住兩人一間的VILLA,跟期待的有相當程度的落差,招待的LULU SPA讓兩人在BALI冬季的夜晚脫光衣服只蓋薄薄的沙龍接受按摩的逞罰. 第三天開始,體能也變差了, 容易疲倦! 第一次人在國外, 我有想家的感覺!
巴里島好玩的點:海邊,傳統市集, 按摩, 飯店......
下次如果還有機會去巴里島,買機加酒就可以玩的很盡興. 出發前先與當地導遊聯繫代為安排車量&按摩地點,就可以玩的很開心囉!
27.9.07
26.9.07
快樂滿滿的小屁屁
中秋回家,終於看到幾個月不見的小屁屁, 好像又長高一點,頂著一頭跟巴比一樣的亂髮,叫他屁屁?整隻就這麼笑開了~ 阿屁的笑有感染力!
原本該睡覺的阿屁,見到大家回來興奮的睡不著,在房裡撐了將近一個小時還是沒睡著,睜著一雙泡泡眼跟大夥玩開了,阿屁遺傳到媽咪的愛整潔,連四台小車車都得頭在前尾巴對齊的排排站,要不然他會生氣呢!
雖然很久沒見面,阿屁對小姑姑還是挺熟悉的,跟阿屁玩了一下後, 不見小姑姑還會到廚房找去. 最喜歡看他嘟著嘴巴發出小~姑姑這三個字,很CUTE!
阿屁的記性超好,記得自己有多少玩具,記得哪個人怎麼稱呼,不一定全會發音,但誰是誰他非常的清楚. 返回台北當天小姑丈跟他玩一下下, 大夥說姑丈在哪裡? 他開始認真的尋找前一天還在的大姑丈,後來跟他解釋了這是小姑丈,他好像明白了似的, 最後也小小聲的叫了"丈" , 阿屁的發音咬字非常清楚唷,讚.
學習很專注的阿屁,跟其他小朋友玩也不扭捏,中秋前一晚到小姑姑婆家烤肉,跟哥哥姊姊玩的很盡興,不時大笑高聲叫喊,看著小姑丈表演精采的部分會拍拍手,非常的進入狀況．當時，１個多月的小妹妹也在場,阿屁帶著好奇的表情看著妹妹,除了口中妹妹妹妹的叫著,嘴吧也不時帶著微笑,小姑姑覺得阿屁將來會像屁爸一樣是個疼愛弟妹的好哥哥～～善良的本性是我們家的傳統～～希望我的ＢＢ也有善良的本性
原本該睡覺的阿屁,見到大家回來興奮的睡不著,在房裡撐了將近一個小時還是沒睡著,睜著一雙泡泡眼跟大夥玩開了,阿屁遺傳到媽咪的愛整潔,連四台小車車都得頭在前尾巴對齊的排排站,要不然他會生氣呢!
雖然很久沒見面,阿屁對小姑姑還是挺熟悉的,跟阿屁玩了一下後, 不見小姑姑還會到廚房找去. 最喜歡看他嘟著嘴巴發出小~姑姑這三個字,很CUTE!
阿屁的記性超好,記得自己有多少玩具,記得哪個人怎麼稱呼,不一定全會發音,但誰是誰他非常的清楚. 返回台北當天小姑丈跟他玩一下下, 大夥說姑丈在哪裡? 他開始認真的尋找前一天還在的大姑丈,後來跟他解釋了這是小姑丈,他好像明白了似的, 最後也小小聲的叫了"丈" , 阿屁的發音咬字非常清楚唷,讚.
學習很專注的阿屁,跟其他小朋友玩也不扭捏,中秋前一晚到小姑姑婆家烤肉,跟哥哥姊姊玩的很盡興,不時大笑高聲叫喊,看著小姑丈表演精采的部分會拍拍手,非常的進入狀況．當時，１個多月的小妹妹也在場,阿屁帶著好奇的表情看著妹妹,除了口中妹妹妹妹的叫著,嘴吧也不時帶著微笑,小姑姑覺得阿屁將來會像屁爸一樣是個疼愛弟妹的好哥哥～～善良的本性是我們家的傳統～～希望我的ＢＢ也有善良的本性
20.9.07
1.68cm
Hello 1.68cm!
2007.9.18
Dad and mom don't have to work today due to typhoon. Dad thought it is a good chance to see a doctor tonight because 2 of us are free. When we stopped by, hospital was opened, so we made 2nd appointment immediately.
It's just a rountine check. We saw you again through altrasound wave. Your heart beat is like a star twinkling. This time, head and body is formed. Yap, you're not longer a lump. you're a human figure ^^. We saw 2 thin tail swining, the doctor said that's your hands, they are growing, too. Dad asked about your size. After measure, you're already 1.68 cm. Base on the size, you are 8w1d now. It's funny. Mom just want to say "hi, 1.68".
Mom also notice that you've moved from my right side to middle. Guess, that's why I get up to pee several time every night.
Tell you a good news that the moving plan was put off to next March.
Mom's brother and sister said it is safer for you to grow up. I guess it's your luck to have someone rent our house. Though it is just 6 month's lease, it is better than nothing. Hoping this guy will decide to extend the lease after 6 months.....
See you.
Mom
2007.9.18
Dad and mom don't have to work today due to typhoon. Dad thought it is a good chance to see a doctor tonight because 2 of us are free. When we stopped by, hospital was opened, so we made 2nd appointment immediately.
It's just a rountine check. We saw you again through altrasound wave. Your heart beat is like a star twinkling. This time, head and body is formed. Yap, you're not longer a lump. you're a human figure ^^. We saw 2 thin tail swining, the doctor said that's your hands, they are growing, too. Dad asked about your size. After measure, you're already 1.68 cm. Base on the size, you are 8w1d now. It's funny. Mom just want to say "hi, 1.68".
Mom also notice that you've moved from my right side to middle. Guess, that's why I get up to pee several time every night.
Tell you a good news that the moving plan was put off to next March.
Mom's brother and sister said it is safer for you to grow up. I guess it's your luck to have someone rent our house. Though it is just 6 month's lease, it is better than nothing. Hoping this guy will decide to extend the lease after 6 months.....
See you.
Mom
5.9.07
1st appointment
Dated 2007.9.5, we had 1st appointment with doctor. Since we already know that I am pregnant, the doctor used supersonic wave to show us our baby. Actually, it is not a baby figure, it's just a lump, approx. 2*2cm. The most amazing thing is we saw its heart beat. This lump is trying to tell us it is exsiting and growing well by it's heart beat. Doctor said it is probably 6 weeks old. We will go back to check the lump after 2 weeks. So, lump, see you on 9/19...
Dear Lump,
You're lucky. After we annouced this news, 2 of your grandma's want to take care of you. I know the best choice to take care of you should be mom but I am not sure if we can afford to it, time and money consumption.
Sorry Lump for Mom's careless. Mom felt sick & sleepy in past 2 weeks. It occurred to me that the mood disorder came back. And mom's health was fallen, I thought it's probably season change. Besides, I am getting old, it's nature to be tired while change of season. But it is worse in this month. Mom even took medicines to ease unfortable stomach. Never aware that I'll have a baby inside my body untill my period is one week late.
Lump, you're an accident! Couple months earlier than our planned. We're going to remodel our house, and plan to move in these months but you just can't wait. Guess you've a quick character so you decided to join us now! With your participation, we've to extra care about every change. The chinese traditions say that it is not allow to relocate during pregnancy. But we've planned to move, so we've to do it as our planned. Hope you stay inside and keep yourself safe while relocating.
As for mom's education, it is still 2 semesters. I am not sure if I can complete it beacuse your due date is 2008/4/29. Mom will not worry about it because Sugee told to follow the flow.
Love you,
Mom
Dear Lump,
You're lucky. After we annouced this news, 2 of your grandma's want to take care of you. I know the best choice to take care of you should be mom but I am not sure if we can afford to it, time and money consumption.
Sorry Lump for Mom's careless. Mom felt sick & sleepy in past 2 weeks. It occurred to me that the mood disorder came back. And mom's health was fallen, I thought it's probably season change. Besides, I am getting old, it's nature to be tired while change of season. But it is worse in this month. Mom even took medicines to ease unfortable stomach. Never aware that I'll have a baby inside my body untill my period is one week late.
Lump, you're an accident! Couple months earlier than our planned. We're going to remodel our house, and plan to move in these months but you just can't wait. Guess you've a quick character so you decided to join us now! With your participation, we've to extra care about every change. The chinese traditions say that it is not allow to relocate during pregnancy. But we've planned to move, so we've to do it as our planned. Hope you stay inside and keep yourself safe while relocating.
As for mom's education, it is still 2 semesters. I am not sure if I can complete it beacuse your due date is 2008/4/29. Mom will not worry about it because Sugee told to follow the flow.
Love you,
Mom
23.8.07
Numbers Game
By Reader's Digest, June 2007.
Funny: what did O say to 8? " Nice Belt"
Funnier: why is 6 afraid of 7? Beacuse 7 8 9
Funniest: What did 2 say to 3 about the unruly 6? "Don't mind him. He's just a prodcut of our times."
Funny: what did O say to 8? " Nice Belt"
Funnier: why is 6 afraid of 7? Beacuse 7 8 9
Funniest: What did 2 say to 3 about the unruly 6? "Don't mind him. He's just a prodcut of our times."
對話
那天在捷運站,電梯裡媽媽推著空的嬰兒車出來,一對兄妹跟著出電梯,哥哥應該小四吧,妹妹差不多6歳,後面年約50幾歲的女人捱著他們走出來. 沒有BABY的嬰兒車 ,讓我多看了幾眼也注意到他們的對話.
50幾歲的女人不斷對隨行的妹妹說:羞羞臉這麼大了還坐嬰兒車...還恐嚇說:要是下次媽媽再推車出來,我會把你....(女人的臉很貼近妹妹的臉),女人對小兄妹說:你們要叫我AUNTIE呀, 我的年紀當你們的奶奶也行. 媽媽一路上保持著微笑,對著眼前的一切也只是淡淡的笑著.試圖將女人的注意力轉移到其他話題上.
原來,嬰兒車是妹妹的. 除了女兒的要求,這位媽媽也擔心妹妹走路走累了跟著把車子給推出來,方便妹妹休息用. 捷運來了,媽媽大喊:妹妹要不要坐上來?被恐嚇了的妹妹自己上了捷運車廂. 在車廂裡,媽媽與兄妹選了個角落站著, 刻意與那女人保持距離, 那位AUNTIE跟蒼蠅似的自己走了過來,除了繼續對妹妹言語上的騷擾還對哥哥說:像這樣沒用的妹妹,可以把她打的粘在牆壁上... 媽媽嘴角始終微微上揚, 過了兩站女人下車前還是不忘再一次恐嚇妹妹,媽媽還很有風度的對阿姨說再見... 等到列車關門,哥哥學著那女人的動作再度嚇唬妹妹, 媽媽這才正色的說道: 那女人的話不要聽, 不要學!
女人的用意是否出於良善? 叫人摸不著頭緒, 只是這樣表達善意實在令人不敢恭維. 直覺地聯想到虎姑婆要吃人的模樣,可怕! 事出必有因,這媽也真的是太寶了,沒想過要女兒應該要學習獨立? 媽媽的風度確實有過人之處~~ 呵,有趣的人生百態!
50幾歲的女人不斷對隨行的妹妹說:羞羞臉這麼大了還坐嬰兒車...還恐嚇說:要是下次媽媽再推車出來,我會把你....(女人的臉很貼近妹妹的臉),女人對小兄妹說:你們要叫我AUNTIE呀, 我的年紀當你們的奶奶也行. 媽媽一路上保持著微笑,對著眼前的一切也只是淡淡的笑著.試圖將女人的注意力轉移到其他話題上.
原來,嬰兒車是妹妹的. 除了女兒的要求,這位媽媽也擔心妹妹走路走累了跟著把車子給推出來,方便妹妹休息用. 捷運來了,媽媽大喊:妹妹要不要坐上來?被恐嚇了的妹妹自己上了捷運車廂. 在車廂裡,媽媽與兄妹選了個角落站著, 刻意與那女人保持距離, 那位AUNTIE跟蒼蠅似的自己走了過來,除了繼續對妹妹言語上的騷擾還對哥哥說:像這樣沒用的妹妹,可以把她打的粘在牆壁上... 媽媽嘴角始終微微上揚, 過了兩站女人下車前還是不忘再一次恐嚇妹妹,媽媽還很有風度的對阿姨說再見... 等到列車關門,哥哥學著那女人的動作再度嚇唬妹妹, 媽媽這才正色的說道: 那女人的話不要聽, 不要學!
女人的用意是否出於良善? 叫人摸不著頭緒, 只是這樣表達善意實在令人不敢恭維. 直覺地聯想到虎姑婆要吃人的模樣,可怕! 事出必有因,這媽也真的是太寶了,沒想過要女兒應該要學習獨立? 媽媽的風度確實有過人之處~~ 呵,有趣的人生百態!
踏實
好友轉換跑道,昨晚遇到她. 工作免不了有"人"的問題,新工作也不例外. 此外,新工作所面對的人事物不像以往的寬廣,還是有許多需要注意的枝枝節節. "在這裡工作多了份踏實,"很高興聽到她這麼說, 畢竟踏實的活著過日子才會安心,生活能多點計畫跟期待,安穩當下也規劃將來的路,好事一樁!賀! 替她開心,也印證了好人會出頭 ^^.
收入增加又有機會搬到比較安靜的環境,付出的代價是每個月多支出2500,可用空間小一點,她的算法: 如果不搬,每個月省2500,一年下來多出3萬元的旅遊費用,對同樣喜愛啪啪走的她無不是個誘人的想法~ 搬與不搬,都希望她的內心可以過的自在舒適. 很欣賞她的算法,想存錢想法就不同, 值得好好效法! 自己也該換個腦袋了,畢竟今不如昔~
期待改天去喝茶聊聊, Good lucks my dear!
收入增加又有機會搬到比較安靜的環境,付出的代價是每個月多支出2500,可用空間小一點,她的算法: 如果不搬,每個月省2500,一年下來多出3萬元的旅遊費用,對同樣喜愛啪啪走的她無不是個誘人的想法~ 搬與不搬,都希望她的內心可以過的自在舒適. 很欣賞她的算法,想存錢想法就不同, 值得好好效法! 自己也該換個腦袋了,畢竟今不如昔~
期待改天去喝茶聊聊, Good lucks my dear!
22.8.07
GOOD LINES..
Life is not always ideal or romantic. It's a series of triumphs and disappointments and that's okay. The best we can do is open our hearts and learn to appreciate and forgive.
BY READER'S DIGEST. JUN. 2007
BY READER'S DIGEST. JUN. 2007
20.8.07
चैनल Lipstick
TWN said: Oh I love it but why bought? It costs much and I don't expect any gift.
CN said: Sure, I should give you something for your wedding because we're so closed... BTW, since we're so close, your house will be mine. Haha.
HAHA, what a sly CN is! No..CN is cute, TWN knows CN is joking, is trying to ease the uneasy feeling that TWN had.
When CN knows TWN bought a house, CN is extremely excited. CN's reaction is just like she own that house, too. CN said she dreams to buy her own house, but pity, she is always in debt & can't afford it. CN's so glad that she shared her decoration plan with TWN. TWN spent more than one hour to listen to CN's house plan. It started from the curtain, bedding, including color, textile and arranging, and to restroom, kitchen and lights. Plus experiences of CN's friends. CN paid attention to every detail. She outlined the house with her brilliant ideas. TWN laughed because it's funny and touched.
CN said: Sure, I should give you something for your wedding because we're so closed... BTW, since we're so close, your house will be mine. Haha.
HAHA, what a sly CN is! No..CN is cute, TWN knows CN is joking, is trying to ease the uneasy feeling that TWN had.
When CN knows TWN bought a house, CN is extremely excited. CN's reaction is just like she own that house, too. CN said she dreams to buy her own house, but pity, she is always in debt & can't afford it. CN's so glad that she shared her decoration plan with TWN. TWN spent more than one hour to listen to CN's house plan. It started from the curtain, bedding, including color, textile and arranging, and to restroom, kitchen and lights. Plus experiences of CN's friends. CN paid attention to every detail. She outlined the house with her brilliant ideas. TWN laughed because it's funny and touched.
19.8.07
國曆8月19日 (日)（農曆7月7日）
上午邊拖地邊咒罵著掉了一地的長髮.
這樣很難拖地耶!
(已用膠帶粘過的地板,角落仍隱藏著掉髮)
氣不過,待會一定要去剪頭髮!
頭髮剪短 習慣性的去找名雅的老闆
我說:洗+剪
老闆煞有其事的拿了幾本髮型書
問道:肩上?肩下?
我看著圖回說:隨便,好整理不翹即可
與老闆算是達成共識,也慎重的選了一個髮型
老闆卻給我剪了妹妹頭!(怎麼看都跟圖不一樣)
得意的說:SNG (老闆,應該是SHE啦)
站在中間比較瘦的那個女生就是剪過這樣的頭
我無話可說,但心裡的OS卻是....
1. "SNG"的HEBE吧 我滿討厭這個女生的捏
2. 妹妹頭? 這把年紀該竊喜還是該哭?
3. 很難認同老闆的精心巧思把後面髮線剪斜
4. 幸好前面看起來正常
老闆掛保證說好看,還附送:不滿意可修的售後服務
試著用別人的眼睛過幾天,
安慰自己:
至少還可以剪短一點
至少不容易掉髮,
至少脖子涼涼的.
至少不翹
中午去天母的一家日是料理吃飯
不貴,食材新鮮美味好吃...
去IKEA參觀主要是想拿個最新的目錄..
正在汰舊換新的IKEA有便宜可撿卻沒啥好逛的
這樣很難拖地耶!
(已用膠帶粘過的地板,角落仍隱藏著掉髮)
氣不過,待會一定要去剪頭髮!
頭髮剪短 習慣性的去找名雅的老闆
我說:洗+剪
老闆煞有其事的拿了幾本髮型書
問道:肩上?肩下?
我看著圖回說:隨便,好整理不翹即可
與老闆算是達成共識,也慎重的選了一個髮型
老闆卻給我剪了妹妹頭!(怎麼看都跟圖不一樣)
得意的說:SNG (老闆,應該是SHE啦)
站在中間比較瘦的那個女生就是剪過這樣的頭
我無話可說,但心裡的OS卻是....
1. "SNG"的HEBE吧 我滿討厭這個女生的捏
2. 妹妹頭? 這把年紀該竊喜還是該哭?
3. 很難認同老闆的精心巧思把後面髮線剪斜
4. 幸好前面看起來正常
老闆掛保證說好看,還附送:不滿意可修的售後服務
試著用別人的眼睛過幾天,
安慰自己:
至少還可以剪短一點
至少不容易掉髮,
至少脖子涼涼的.
至少不翹
中午去天母的一家日是料理吃飯
不貴,食材新鮮美味好吃...
去IKEA參觀主要是想拿個最新的目錄..
正在汰舊換新的IKEA有便宜可撿卻沒啥好逛的
一個人的防颱準備
8/16..晚上
大雨歪斜的下著 照路的是閃電..
幸好雷公沒來湊熱鬧...
加緊腳步 抓緊傘柄 上緊發條 跟上距離我20M的路人甲
一個人 回家~~
8/16 午夜
新聞持續放送著強颱消息
預告+過往經驗整理
這個颱風週末應該會登陸
那星期五呢?有沒有颱風假?
希望放假也希望本島一切平安
8/17 日:
除了忽隱忽現的太陽與時大時小的颱風雨
似乎沒有提早放假的味道
發現颱風的威力是在下班回家的路上
推卻了大姐的好意,我留在家中固守家園@@ (其實是想看電視啦)
誰說一個人不能享受颱風天?
如果有人逃了,怎樣的天氣都得學會自己一個人過~
8/17 夜:
防颱準備,添購的戰力品有:
1.新鮮土司
2.不受控制的咖傘(算是買來就壞了的)
3.鹽酥雞(一個人也該好好享受台灣道地美食)
4.沒派上用場的2大4小電池,(就算真的停電,只有四小能派上用場,大的得三顆才會亮>"<)
台北的WELLCOME有濃厚的颱風味,光看哪結帳的人潮與人人爭搶的空菜籃,我把好不容易等到的菜籃給轉手了,冰箱的東西明天應該夠吃.不買了回家!
師大的風平時就大,颱風天用風聲鶴唳來形容不為過,掙扎是否將玻璃貼上膠帶? 懶精靈戰勝了心中恐懼. 只好安慰自己: 窗戶破了也是命呀! 當晚,本想泡個菊普搭鹽酥雞,念頭一轉: 如果停電,我又睡不著,那豈不是更慘?
8/18 颱風來了!
這一天肯定是家中坐的囉~ 遙控器轉了轉看了幾部電影,所幸起身整理家裡.頭毛掉了一地,卻得當髮奴來清理,#氣###$% (天晴後,剪個短髮去除惱人的掉髮問題.) 丟掉一些積存在房間的垃圾,颱風天換來清爽,不錯!
等等等,白日將盡 外頭風雨仍強,看來今天沒機會出門了,剪髮等明天吧!
大雨歪斜的下著 照路的是閃電..
幸好雷公沒來湊熱鬧...
加緊腳步 抓緊傘柄 上緊發條 跟上距離我20M的路人甲
一個人 回家~~
8/16 午夜
新聞持續放送著強颱消息
預告+過往經驗整理
這個颱風週末應該會登陸
那星期五呢?有沒有颱風假?
希望放假也希望本島一切平安
8/17 日:
除了忽隱忽現的太陽與時大時小的颱風雨
似乎沒有提早放假的味道
發現颱風的威力是在下班回家的路上
推卻了大姐的好意,我留在家中固守家園@@ (其實是想看電視啦)
誰說一個人不能享受颱風天?
如果有人逃了,怎樣的天氣都得學會自己一個人過~
8/17 夜:
防颱準備,添購的戰力品有:
1.新鮮土司
2.不受控制的咖傘(算是買來就壞了的)
3.鹽酥雞(一個人也該好好享受台灣道地美食)
4.沒派上用場的2大4小電池,(就算真的停電,只有四小能派上用場,大的得三顆才會亮>"<)
台北的WELLCOME有濃厚的颱風味,光看哪結帳的人潮與人人爭搶的空菜籃,我把好不容易等到的菜籃給轉手了,冰箱的東西明天應該夠吃.不買了回家!
師大的風平時就大,颱風天用風聲鶴唳來形容不為過,掙扎是否將玻璃貼上膠帶? 懶精靈戰勝了心中恐懼. 只好安慰自己: 窗戶破了也是命呀! 當晚,本想泡個菊普搭鹽酥雞,念頭一轉: 如果停電,我又睡不著,那豈不是更慘?
8/18 颱風來了!
這一天肯定是家中坐的囉~ 遙控器轉了轉看了幾部電影,所幸起身整理家裡.頭毛掉了一地,卻得當髮奴來清理,#氣###$% (天晴後,剪個短髮去除惱人的掉髮問題.) 丟掉一些積存在房間的垃圾,颱風天換來清爽,不錯!
等等等,白日將盡 外頭風雨仍強,看來今天沒機會出門了,剪髮等明天吧!
16.8.07
喜福會
期待放颱風假,可是太陽大到皮膚曬疼了說.
有颱風假可放嗎???
晚一點,大哥說:如果待會風雨大,可以提早走^^
呵呵.. 但大哥這麼說,我們反而自治了,
隔著鋼筋水泥強看外頭的風雨,
好像沒有想像中的大 加上星期五的事情多
我們還是留到原本下班的時間才離開..
趁著颱風天跟JOAN去吃SHAPUSHAPU
從昨晚熬夜看的喜福會到山童歲月之我的理想
再轉到朋友小孩的教育問題最後以如何安頓"心"結尾.
((喜福會))
看過幾次覺得有點沉悶的電影,
片片段段的記憶 以前未曾把這部電影看完
在夜闌人靜清醒的晚上 這電影看起來格外有感觸..
A描述一家三代女人的價值觀,故事開始:女兒的異國婚姻亮紅燈,正鬧離婚.
The American Husband expected wife to have her own life/own opinions. For husband, different opinions are fine, arguments are okay, these are communication. The wife thought that she should live/do for her husband because these are for her husband, the one she love the most. However, the husband is not used to this Chinese family Model. He can't stand anymore.....
The daughter met her mother. The mother listened to daughter's story and is very upset. She saw grandma's image from daughter. The mother knows what she wants and will speak out for herself since she was young after the grandmother died for her. When mother has a daughter, she tried to raise girl with American way.Unfortunately, Grandma's soul is growing in duaghter's body.
B. this story is about a failure daughter & A+ mother. The mother is always good no matter what she did. On the contract, the duaghter is alwasy a Loser in her mother eyes. She was failure in Scoring, playing piano, being a single old lady, and being a freelancer. Compared to how good her mother is, she is totally a Loser. Duaghter thought mother doesn't know her at all. Mother's expectation is always hard to reach. However,the mother defensed: I know who you are & I see the best part of you, you're a person with good heart! That's what I saw into you. I am not setting expectation but I am hoping....
Even though they live in American, they still encouter traditional Chinese problem: The conflict between parents and kids!
Theme of this film is being yourself. Trying to tell us that we're independent individual. No matter where we are, we chinese always prisoned in our traditional. Living in parents expectation. Living for others but not living up for yourself. So, just be yourself! Love yourself!
有颱風假可放嗎???
晚一點,大哥說:如果待會風雨大,可以提早走^^
呵呵.. 但大哥這麼說,我們反而自治了,
隔著鋼筋水泥強看外頭的風雨,
好像沒有想像中的大 加上星期五的事情多
我們還是留到原本下班的時間才離開..
趁著颱風天跟JOAN去吃SHAPUSHAPU
從昨晚熬夜看的喜福會到山童歲月之我的理想
再轉到朋友小孩的教育問題最後以如何安頓"心"結尾.
((喜福會))
看過幾次覺得有點沉悶的電影,
片片段段的記憶 以前未曾把這部電影看完
在夜闌人靜清醒的晚上 這電影看起來格外有感觸..
A描述一家三代女人的價值觀,故事開始:女兒的異國婚姻亮紅燈,正鬧離婚.
The American Husband expected wife to have her own life/own opinions. For husband, different opinions are fine, arguments are okay, these are communication. The wife thought that she should live/do for her husband because these are for her husband, the one she love the most. However, the husband is not used to this Chinese family Model. He can't stand anymore.....
The daughter met her mother. The mother listened to daughter's story and is very upset. She saw grandma's image from daughter. The mother knows what she wants and will speak out for herself since she was young after the grandmother died for her. When mother has a daughter, she tried to raise girl with American way.Unfortunately, Grandma's soul is growing in duaghter's body.
B. this story is about a failure daughter & A+ mother. The mother is always good no matter what she did. On the contract, the duaghter is alwasy a Loser in her mother eyes. She was failure in Scoring, playing piano, being a single old lady, and being a freelancer. Compared to how good her mother is, she is totally a Loser. Duaghter thought mother doesn't know her at all. Mother's expectation is always hard to reach. However,the mother defensed: I know who you are & I see the best part of you, you're a person with good heart! That's what I saw into you. I am not setting expectation but I am hoping....
Even though they live in American, they still encouter traditional Chinese problem: The conflict between parents and kids!
Theme of this film is being yourself. Trying to tell us that we're independent individual. No matter where we are, we chinese always prisoned in our traditional. Living in parents expectation. Living for others but not living up for yourself. So, just be yourself! Love yourself!
山童歲月 by 凌拂
當天午後一口氣看完剛從圖書館借的書, 透過文字 老師把甲.乙.丙丁等12位山童的故事 ㄧ字ㄧ句刻劃出生動的景象, 讀了 有時會心一笑 有時心頭一緊, 喜怒哀樂隨著在山裡成長的孩子們 浮動।
讀完這本書,很多情緒一下子湧現, 一時理不清頭緒॥ 清晰可見的是那個佈滿塵璊的理想,曾經希望擁有房子,接納照顧失親的孩子們.曾經,想過為那些孩子做點什麼... 相較於理想,現實讓我想的多做的少,透過文字,讓大家看看凌拂老師為山童們做了什麼... 這是一本好書...<<山童歲月>>
以下轉載自:【水瓶面面如是說】
http://www.wretch.cc/blog/kittylee0203&article_id=6177931
作者：凌拂
出版：天下雜誌，2006年8月
凌拂她是個對自然有著細膩情感的文學作家，在自由時報副刊見到她一篇題為〈寬容的等待〉一文，我對她的認識不再僅限於一個自然文學作家，她還是個教書三十年，懂得生命、懂得孩子的教育工作者。
凌拂說：「現實裡的成長可不是虛擬的戲文，立竿見影，一日裡便歷盡種種分曉。」這話深深打動著我，也讓我不斷反省自身的教育方式，是不是過於急切，忘了成長從來就不是一蹴可幾的？我是不是也總熱切地盼望孩子在我的引領下，進步的幅度大到顯而易見？如果見不著孩子立即彰顯的成就，便以為在其生命幽微處，沒有任何的變化正悄然進行？凌拂的話不斷在我心裡迴盪著，她說：「我真正要傳遞的訊息，是一種情境的等待。有時候，我不以為老師敎了某些知識或者技巧，孩子沒有立即呈顯或者表現出來，就表示孩子沒有學會；同時，我也不以為所有的學習，都應該在一次裡完成，或者在一次裡驗收。…結果到底如何，只能等待，遙遙忽忽，甚至有可能完全無解，不知密碼會在何處啟動。情境未到的時候急不得。面對孩子我們常期望立竿見影，事後返觀，『急』只是我們內在的無明。」真是一段充滿智慧的語言，我領受在心，時時拿來自我提醒。
在這本書中，凌拂，一位遠離城市的小學老師，以文學之筆，寫下她與山上孩童照面、交會的十五則故事，溫馨感人。在她筆下，毎個孩子各有特色，活靈活現。一個對學生漫不經心的老師，是寫不出這樣動人的篇章的。我悄悄問自己，如果我也到了教書三十載的年紀，我可以寫下幾篇像這樣與孩子心靈交會的故事呢？我以這個問題作為自我惕勵，期待自己用心對待孩子，走進孩子的內心，是孩子的良師、也是益友。
熱切將此書推薦給為人師、為人父母者，相信它會帶給你一些觸發與收穫。
【書摘】
● 關於教學與情意，知識的美應當應對在生活中的感知，知識應該結合在生活裡。
● 長期與孩子相處，我有一種淡然的熱切，面對成長的生命，懷著一種距離的清醒。因為這一種冷寂，讓我在距離之外，孩子往往尚未言語，眉眼纔動，我便常能洞悉明明觀其內裡。許多心領神會，隱而不宣的剎那，幽微處，這些蒙童小兒，我了解他們，甚至有時遠超過他們某些粗略的父母。許多心照無法言說的部份，是我認為孩子與老師相親遠勝過父母之處。但我又從來不要做他們的父母，近身相搏，把屎把尿的事我從不插手。這情形又更顯於都市。父母有父母的盲點，距離有距離的清明。
● 我們同時都既是投手、捕手，也是打擊手與右外野手。我從青澀與新舊交替的摸索裡走過來，球打壞了，一記滾地球狼狽於心，靜靜留著與靈魂對話，當作成長的因子。球打遠了，誰也保不定是不是個再見全壘打，但看在眾人眼下，一顆心懸著，跟著轉過或數日、或累月、甚或經年，答案不知在悠悠的某處。
● 早年不懂得孩子，因為不懂得生命。 後來生命日有經歷，遇到的失落與挫折多了，回首之際，發現日漸懂得了孩子，原來是因為懂得了生命。
● 我其實真正想談的是一種「情境」，一種從容、緩慢且睿秀的「教育情境」。它不大容易立竿見影，像空氣一樣，看不見，摸不著，只能靠感覺，可是它最重要，沒有它，就沒有生命。
● 我能在工作中找尋自己的快樂，這是孩子有恩於我。但必然也有我錯待過的孩子吧，某些惦記的至今還在心上，有心、無心都得懺悔。如是，鬢髮霜白又算得什麼！摯心等候天罰，俯首償還，我是吭也不會吭一聲的。
● 我服膺於一雙雙童貞的眼睛，一切的學習都是從生活開始。瑞秋．卡森面對自然，以充滿詩意的筆調陳述所見所思所感，她對自然的衷情全在字裡行間。她認為任何訓練都不及懷抱著發現之趣，純粹顯現出與孩子分享的歡欣。她在書中說：「縱使我們大部分人都擁有明晰的視力，卻無法洞悉對美麗與令人敬畏之物的單純本能，這本能甚至在我們成年之前便已喪失。」所以她說：「小孩要一直保留天生的驚奇之心，至少需要有一個大人陪伴，與他共享、重新發現我們這個世界的喜悅、興奮和奧祕。」
● 孩子難管，因要管得靜而不呆，活而不油。與孩子相處的日子，真是一部說不盡的二十五史。
● 努力給孩子堆砌一些生冷的知識，不會比從容和諧地坐下來，和孩子溫暖地談一些閒事重要。而我們的學校情境是，教師被瑣碎消磨，兒童被集體壓縮的規格消磨。
● 自然間自有其相互與共的綿密交織，如果沒有隱花果小蜂，我們就沒有愛玉；如果我們捨棄了毛毛蟲，我們也將會失去蝴蝶；如果我們失去了某一種昆蟲，我們也將失去某一種鳥類；像骨牌效應一樣，一路傾頹下來的將是面而不是點！
【延伸閱讀】
〈寬容的等待〉(上) http://www.libertytimes.com.tw/2006/new/aug/29/today-article2.htm
〈寬容的等待〉(下) http://www.libertytimes.com.tw/2006/new/aug/30/today-
讀完這本書,很多情緒一下子湧現, 一時理不清頭緒॥ 清晰可見的是那個佈滿塵璊的理想,曾經希望擁有房子,接納照顧失親的孩子們.曾經,想過為那些孩子做點什麼... 相較於理想,現實讓我想的多做的少,透過文字,讓大家看看凌拂老師為山童們做了什麼... 這是一本好書...<<山童歲月>>
以下轉載自:【水瓶面面如是說】
http://www.wretch.cc/blog/kittylee0203&article_id=6177931
作者：凌拂
出版：天下雜誌，2006年8月
凌拂她是個對自然有著細膩情感的文學作家，在自由時報副刊見到她一篇題為〈寬容的等待〉一文，我對她的認識不再僅限於一個自然文學作家，她還是個教書三十年，懂得生命、懂得孩子的教育工作者。
凌拂說：「現實裡的成長可不是虛擬的戲文，立竿見影，一日裡便歷盡種種分曉。」這話深深打動著我，也讓我不斷反省自身的教育方式，是不是過於急切，忘了成長從來就不是一蹴可幾的？我是不是也總熱切地盼望孩子在我的引領下，進步的幅度大到顯而易見？如果見不著孩子立即彰顯的成就，便以為在其生命幽微處，沒有任何的變化正悄然進行？凌拂的話不斷在我心裡迴盪著，她說：「我真正要傳遞的訊息，是一種情境的等待。有時候，我不以為老師敎了某些知識或者技巧，孩子沒有立即呈顯或者表現出來，就表示孩子沒有學會；同時，我也不以為所有的學習，都應該在一次裡完成，或者在一次裡驗收。…結果到底如何，只能等待，遙遙忽忽，甚至有可能完全無解，不知密碼會在何處啟動。情境未到的時候急不得。面對孩子我們常期望立竿見影，事後返觀，『急』只是我們內在的無明。」真是一段充滿智慧的語言，我領受在心，時時拿來自我提醒。
在這本書中，凌拂，一位遠離城市的小學老師，以文學之筆，寫下她與山上孩童照面、交會的十五則故事，溫馨感人。在她筆下，毎個孩子各有特色，活靈活現。一個對學生漫不經心的老師，是寫不出這樣動人的篇章的。我悄悄問自己，如果我也到了教書三十載的年紀，我可以寫下幾篇像這樣與孩子心靈交會的故事呢？我以這個問題作為自我惕勵，期待自己用心對待孩子，走進孩子的內心，是孩子的良師、也是益友。
熱切將此書推薦給為人師、為人父母者，相信它會帶給你一些觸發與收穫。
【書摘】
● 關於教學與情意，知識的美應當應對在生活中的感知，知識應該結合在生活裡。
● 長期與孩子相處，我有一種淡然的熱切，面對成長的生命，懷著一種距離的清醒。因為這一種冷寂，讓我在距離之外，孩子往往尚未言語，眉眼纔動，我便常能洞悉明明觀其內裡。許多心領神會，隱而不宣的剎那，幽微處，這些蒙童小兒，我了解他們，甚至有時遠超過他們某些粗略的父母。許多心照無法言說的部份，是我認為孩子與老師相親遠勝過父母之處。但我又從來不要做他們的父母，近身相搏，把屎把尿的事我從不插手。這情形又更顯於都市。父母有父母的盲點，距離有距離的清明。
● 我們同時都既是投手、捕手，也是打擊手與右外野手。我從青澀與新舊交替的摸索裡走過來，球打壞了，一記滾地球狼狽於心，靜靜留著與靈魂對話，當作成長的因子。球打遠了，誰也保不定是不是個再見全壘打，但看在眾人眼下，一顆心懸著，跟著轉過或數日、或累月、甚或經年，答案不知在悠悠的某處。
● 早年不懂得孩子，因為不懂得生命。 後來生命日有經歷，遇到的失落與挫折多了，回首之際，發現日漸懂得了孩子，原來是因為懂得了生命。
● 我其實真正想談的是一種「情境」，一種從容、緩慢且睿秀的「教育情境」。它不大容易立竿見影，像空氣一樣，看不見，摸不著，只能靠感覺，可是它最重要，沒有它，就沒有生命。
● 我能在工作中找尋自己的快樂，這是孩子有恩於我。但必然也有我錯待過的孩子吧，某些惦記的至今還在心上，有心、無心都得懺悔。如是，鬢髮霜白又算得什麼！摯心等候天罰，俯首償還，我是吭也不會吭一聲的。
● 我服膺於一雙雙童貞的眼睛，一切的學習都是從生活開始。瑞秋．卡森面對自然，以充滿詩意的筆調陳述所見所思所感，她對自然的衷情全在字裡行間。她認為任何訓練都不及懷抱著發現之趣，純粹顯現出與孩子分享的歡欣。她在書中說：「縱使我們大部分人都擁有明晰的視力，卻無法洞悉對美麗與令人敬畏之物的單純本能，這本能甚至在我們成年之前便已喪失。」所以她說：「小孩要一直保留天生的驚奇之心，至少需要有一個大人陪伴，與他共享、重新發現我們這個世界的喜悅、興奮和奧祕。」
● 孩子難管，因要管得靜而不呆，活而不油。與孩子相處的日子，真是一部說不盡的二十五史。
● 努力給孩子堆砌一些生冷的知識，不會比從容和諧地坐下來，和孩子溫暖地談一些閒事重要。而我們的學校情境是，教師被瑣碎消磨，兒童被集體壓縮的規格消磨。
● 自然間自有其相互與共的綿密交織，如果沒有隱花果小蜂，我們就沒有愛玉；如果我們捨棄了毛毛蟲，我們也將會失去蝴蝶；如果我們失去了某一種昆蟲，我們也將失去某一種鳥類；像骨牌效應一樣，一路傾頹下來的將是面而不是點！
【延伸閱讀】
〈寬容的等待〉(上) http://www.libertytimes.com.tw/2006/new/aug/29/today-article2.htm
〈寬容的等待〉(下) http://www.libertytimes.com.tw/2006/new/aug/30/today-
15.8.07
禮物
藍天的故事:
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藍收到包裹 自購物網寄出
許久沒有on line shopping的藍,
藍訂單資料上查無此購物紀錄
詢問之下是天送的
禮物比預定的時間早到一天.
善意的禮物 卻喚出藍埋在心裡的愿懟
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幾年前一個午後工作天
藍在GOOGLE的播客中找到一篇文章
文章留言版有天署名的留言
原來幾天前藍天去玩買的名產
是天想送給這名女播客的禮物
特產+特地="這女性"...
其實不用問也知道
這是預謀的"背叛"
藍天沒分手
只是 CHEATING
讓藍認清了天
藍早就知道
表面可以跟這個人在一起
心裡頭卻想著另一個人
做的事也全為了討心裡頭的那人的歡心
原來 藍天的愛情
也是這麼一回事 沒有例外!
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幾年前的插曲
藍
總以為一切都已經過去
也不短提醒自己不要去在乎 LET IT BE
沒想到過去卻成了
現在揮之不去的陰霾
現實生活的未爆彈
藍知道這是自己後天的心理障礙
***************
快樂遠離
看著別人ENJOY 各個場合,
開心暢飲歡樂談笑
相較於這些人
藍,成了深藍色的藍(DK BLUE)...
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也許受成長環境的影響:
藍的母親習慣以愿懟的方式去對父親
明明父親沒錯 藍的母親不知哪來的仇恨
總是可以把小題作大
藍:承襲了母親的習性(先天的心理問題)
藍:使勁全力 抵抗中
極力為這種情緒找到正面出路
***************
...身體vs命...
也許有一天,
會聽到藍會說:"我的命贏了我的身體"
BYE BYE MY BLUE!
***************
藍收到包裹 自購物網寄出
許久沒有on line shopping的藍,
藍訂單資料上查無此購物紀錄
詢問之下是天送的
禮物比預定的時間早到一天.
善意的禮物 卻喚出藍埋在心裡的愿懟
***************
幾年前一個午後工作天
藍在GOOGLE的播客中找到一篇文章
文章留言版有天署名的留言
原來幾天前藍天去玩買的名產
是天想送給這名女播客的禮物
特產+特地="這女性"...
其實不用問也知道
這是預謀的"背叛"
藍天沒分手
只是 CHEATING
讓藍認清了天
藍早就知道
表面可以跟這個人在一起
心裡頭卻想著另一個人
做的事也全為了討心裡頭的那人的歡心
原來 藍天的愛情
也是這麼一回事 沒有例外!
***************
幾年前的插曲
藍
總以為一切都已經過去
也不短提醒自己不要去在乎 LET IT BE
沒想到過去卻成了
現在揮之不去的陰霾
現實生活的未爆彈
藍知道這是自己後天的心理障礙
***************
快樂遠離
看著別人ENJOY 各個場合,
開心暢飲歡樂談笑
相較於這些人
藍,成了深藍色的藍(DK BLUE)...
***************
也許受成長環境的影響:
藍的母親習慣以愿懟的方式去對父親
明明父親沒錯 藍的母親不知哪來的仇恨
總是可以把小題作大
藍:承襲了母親的習性(先天的心理問題)
藍:使勁全力 抵抗中
極力為這種情緒找到正面出路
***************
...身體vs命...
也許有一天,
會聽到藍會說:"我的命贏了我的身體"
BYE BYE MY BLUE!
12.8.07
淡江蘭陽遇見華梵....
細雨 夜晚
山路蜿蜒,幾輛車在路上奔馳
20多分鐘車程 我們底達tku蘭陽校區
2006.2.啟用WHOLE ENGLISH ENVIRONMENT
2006.9.四系新生在此就讀
2007.8.11 有幸在此度過一晚
2007.8.12 上課一天
蘭陽校園跟華梵有點相似
校園建築物不多,
藉由川堂連結坡地高度落差的建築物.
學生少.
窗外美麗的夜景~~
最像的莫過於溫度&氣息
農民曆明載8/8立秋
8月11日的山上已有涼爽入秋的氣息
溫度是宜人的帶點入秋的寒意(24度左右)
走到戶外,大口身呼吸是清翠綠草的氣息
啊~~ 我掉進時間回憶機
轉呀轉呀
回到了18歳那年的9月
我第一次初訪華梵,
9月的華梵有別於山下的酷熱
換上薄罩衫抵禦入秋的寒意
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山上 總讓人氣定神閒
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下課後我跟老王又繞去佛光大學
佛光的主要建築隱身於山中,
外頭看得到只有一棟學生宿舍挺立
佛光,我感受到許多人的發心善款支持星雲法師建學
美輪美奐的建築&先進設備
希望
學子能感恩所擁有的資源 精進 向學
********************
隨後,我們去泡湯...
山路蜿蜒,幾輛車在路上奔馳
20多分鐘車程 我們底達tku蘭陽校區
2006.2.啟用WHOLE ENGLISH ENVIRONMENT
2006.9.四系新生在此就讀
2007.8.11 有幸在此度過一晚
2007.8.12 上課一天
蘭陽校園跟華梵有點相似
校園建築物不多,
藉由川堂連結坡地高度落差的建築物.
學生少.
窗外美麗的夜景~~
最像的莫過於溫度&氣息
農民曆明載8/8立秋
8月11日的山上已有涼爽入秋的氣息
溫度是宜人的帶點入秋的寒意(24度左右)
走到戶外,大口身呼吸是清翠綠草的氣息
啊~~ 我掉進時間回憶機
轉呀轉呀
回到了18歳那年的9月
我第一次初訪華梵,
9月的華梵有別於山下的酷熱
換上薄罩衫抵禦入秋的寒意
******************
山上 總讓人氣定神閒
******************
下課後我跟老王又繞去佛光大學
佛光的主要建築隱身於山中,
外頭看得到只有一棟學生宿舍挺立
佛光,我感受到許多人的發心善款支持星雲法師建學
美輪美奐的建築&先進設備
希望
學子能感恩所擁有的資源 精進 向學
********************
隨後,我們去泡湯...
8.8.07
市圖休館日
休館日一覽表
開放時間
一、週二至週六：8時30分至21時
週日.週一: 9時至17時
難怪星期一晚上去都已經大門深鎖,原來週一只開放到下午五點
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五、申請借閱證及借、還書在閉館前30分鐘停止受理。
六、經政府公告之放假日為休館日；每月第一個星期四為圖書整理清潔日，不對外開放。
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2007年休館日一覽表
‧2007-09-06（星期四，※休館日）
‧2007-09-25（星期二，中秋節）
‧2007-10-04（星期四，※休館日）
‧2007-10-10（星期三，國慶日）
‧2007-11-01（星期四，※休館日）
‧2007-12-06（星期四，※休館日）
開放時間
一、週二至週六：8時30分至21時
週日.週一: 9時至17時
難怪星期一晚上去都已經大門深鎖,原來週一只開放到下午五點
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五、申請借閱證及借、還書在閉館前30分鐘停止受理。
六、經政府公告之放假日為休館日；每月第一個星期四為圖書整理清潔日，不對外開放。
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2007年休館日一覽表
‧2007-09-06（星期四，※休館日）
‧2007-09-25（星期二，中秋節）
‧2007-10-04（星期四，※休館日）
‧2007-10-10（星期三，國慶日）
‧2007-11-01（星期四，※休館日）
‧2007-12-06（星期四，※休館日）
5.8.07
Mr. Bean
Last night, we went to watch movie. I am not interested in Mr. Bean series, but it is one ticket for 2, so, we have not other choice but watch both films.
I was suprise at Mr. Bean's performance. A film without leading character's line? Wow, Bravo! All expressions is performed by Bean's acts. Though, I am sick at his face expression but his acts are humorous & funny! I am particular loving these scene that Bean made money for their trip to Canne by singing opera in public. His acting & his dance are awesome. Simple act and happy ending@@
I was suprise at Mr. Bean's performance. A film without leading character's line? Wow, Bravo! All expressions is performed by Bean's acts. Though, I am sick at his face expression but his acts are humorous & funny! I am particular loving these scene that Bean made money for their trip to Canne by singing opera in public. His acting & his dance are awesome. Simple act and happy ending@@
30.7.07
鮭魚炒飯
鮭魚炒飯:
材料:
1.新鮮鮭魚一片(松青超市)
2.洋蔥一顆
3.高麗菜一些 (一兩週前剩的日本高麗菜,甜)
4.玉米罐頭一罐 (炒飯前先將水分倒掉)
5.白飯4碗
做法:
1.2.3材料切成小塊狀,倒入些許茶油,將2.3.菜纇炒熟,加入鮭魚炒半熟, 再加入4.5.拌炒到飯呈現乾爽狀況即可裝盤.
評比: 大成功!
A. 可以再加一點黑胡椒提味,可惜家裡沒有.
B. 完全不加味精跟鹽巴也還是很鮮美唷
C. 色香味具全.裡頭有魚肉跟青菜,營養好吃
D. 約20分鐘可以完成非常省事
E. 飯後加水果..飽飽飽@@
推薦松青超市: 販賣的菜纇肉品都很新鮮,原本擔心鮭魚會有腥味,沒想到帶回家不僅沒有腥味,色澤還很美...高麗菜也是很棒, 冰了至少10天的高麗菜,還是甜的不得了!
材料:
1.新鮮鮭魚一片(松青超市)
2.洋蔥一顆
3.高麗菜一些 (一兩週前剩的日本高麗菜,甜)
4.玉米罐頭一罐 (炒飯前先將水分倒掉)
5.白飯4碗
做法:
1.2.3材料切成小塊狀,倒入些許茶油,將2.3.菜纇炒熟,加入鮭魚炒半熟, 再加入4.5.拌炒到飯呈現乾爽狀況即可裝盤.
評比: 大成功!
A. 可以再加一點黑胡椒提味,可惜家裡沒有.
B. 完全不加味精跟鹽巴也還是很鮮美唷
C. 色香味具全.裡頭有魚肉跟青菜,營養好吃
D. 約20分鐘可以完成非常省事
E. 飯後加水果..飽飽飽@@
推薦松青超市: 販賣的菜纇肉品都很新鮮,原本擔心鮭魚會有腥味,沒想到帶回家不僅沒有腥味,色澤還很美...高麗菜也是很棒, 冰了至少10天的高麗菜,還是甜的不得了!
Relatives issue.....
最近發生一些讓我覺得很00xx的事
不求完全無事 只希望我有智慧
去面對處理這些煩人惱人的俗事
My dad picked me up & I stayed Friday night in my parents house. Shawn asked me if I want to go home (his parents house) that night, I said I want to stay in my parents house, then he said ok, he'll chat with his friends and went home later. Becuase he went home late, he has an excuse for not picking me up. Next morning I still don't want to go to in law's house, so I told Shawn that I was going to make new hair style and told him to go to my parent's house for lunch. When we go back to Shwan's parents house, his mother is unfriendly and told me that I should go "home" ( she meant their house). And she said: this is your home, that's your parents house. Must remember." I did not talk back at that moment because I already stayed one night with my parents and I told her that we'll home Friday night but we didn't. It's our mistake. But I think her words is bullshit, what hell " this is my home..." I'm sick of it. And what makes me angery is they forced me to make dinner for whole family. Well, I made it and the result is bad because I don't know how to cook at all. AND I LOST MY APPETITE THAT NIGHT. When we back to Taipei, I complained to Shawn. I said to him that I would rather buy than cooking for his family. No more cooking next time. I also thought he was not helping me when his mom talked home theory to me... he was not helping when I was cooking. Well, he is always that kind of person, never stand up for me when someone, especially some women he cares, take advantages by lips on me. But he said he did tell his mom that morning and he has no idea for why his mom came up with this issue when I went home. So, his mom scold me on purpose because she knew his son won't pass her word to me. Lucky, we just stay one night. Go to Home of in law? Killing me.
Shawn planned to install a water fillter machine that his father sells. His father always claimed that water came out of this machine is pure and good for our health so he is also selling water, too. When he knows that Shawn want to install, he prepare 6 empty pails and many small empty bottles as well. To my surprise, he wants Shawn drove these pails back and to sell water in Taipei, too. I am very unhappy about that. Last night, I asked Shawn if he bought this machine? He said yes. I asked Shawn: What are these pails for? Shawn said he has no idea, too. Probably his father thinks it's a good way to make extra money. I told him that I think my life has been harrassed. I am not aganist him for selling water or that machine, but at least he should let me know. Besides, for safety purpose, i don't want stranger to go to our house. It a house for rest not for business. I think his father is out of goodwill but it's ridiculous for doing things whatever he wants. My place & my life.
On Monday, my aunt (mom's younger sister) called me. She seperated with her husband and wants to find a place to stay. She thinks of our place. I decline her beacuse I don't want another relative issue in my life. Then I called my mom. I hope she could stop her sister from approaching us.
Well, these days, I am fighting hard for my peaceful life.....These relatives issues..
不求完全無事 只希望我有智慧
去面對處理這些煩人惱人的俗事
My dad picked me up & I stayed Friday night in my parents house. Shawn asked me if I want to go home (his parents house) that night, I said I want to stay in my parents house, then he said ok, he'll chat with his friends and went home later. Becuase he went home late, he has an excuse for not picking me up. Next morning I still don't want to go to in law's house, so I told Shawn that I was going to make new hair style and told him to go to my parent's house for lunch. When we go back to Shwan's parents house, his mother is unfriendly and told me that I should go "home" ( she meant their house). And she said: this is your home, that's your parents house. Must remember." I did not talk back at that moment because I already stayed one night with my parents and I told her that we'll home Friday night but we didn't. It's our mistake. But I think her words is bullshit, what hell " this is my home..." I'm sick of it. And what makes me angery is they forced me to make dinner for whole family. Well, I made it and the result is bad because I don't know how to cook at all. AND I LOST MY APPETITE THAT NIGHT. When we back to Taipei, I complained to Shawn. I said to him that I would rather buy than cooking for his family. No more cooking next time. I also thought he was not helping me when his mom talked home theory to me... he was not helping when I was cooking. Well, he is always that kind of person, never stand up for me when someone, especially some women he cares, take advantages by lips on me. But he said he did tell his mom that morning and he has no idea for why his mom came up with this issue when I went home. So, his mom scold me on purpose because she knew his son won't pass her word to me. Lucky, we just stay one night. Go to Home of in law? Killing me.
Shawn planned to install a water fillter machine that his father sells. His father always claimed that water came out of this machine is pure and good for our health so he is also selling water, too. When he knows that Shawn want to install, he prepare 6 empty pails and many small empty bottles as well. To my surprise, he wants Shawn drove these pails back and to sell water in Taipei, too. I am very unhappy about that. Last night, I asked Shawn if he bought this machine? He said yes. I asked Shawn: What are these pails for? Shawn said he has no idea, too. Probably his father thinks it's a good way to make extra money. I told him that I think my life has been harrassed. I am not aganist him for selling water or that machine, but at least he should let me know. Besides, for safety purpose, i don't want stranger to go to our house. It a house for rest not for business. I think his father is out of goodwill but it's ridiculous for doing things whatever he wants. My place & my life.
On Monday, my aunt (mom's younger sister) called me. She seperated with her husband and wants to find a place to stay. She thinks of our place. I decline her beacuse I don't want another relative issue in my life. Then I called my mom. I hope she could stop her sister from approaching us.
Well, these days, I am fighting hard for my peaceful life.....These relatives issues..
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