27.6.07

About family Issue

A君端詳著C君分別與婆婆與媽媽的合照:
A君對C君說:你媽媽連眼睛都再笑唷,你婆怎麼都沒有笑容?
年紀相仿的女人卻有不同的故事與背景, 照片寫實鋪陳兩個女人的一生:
C君心裡想著:心情不同, 拍照時表現出的表情也不同.
C君告訴自己 要當個笑起來連眼睛都會笑的女人, 現在如此 以後也要繼續..
怎麼做?正考驗著C君的智慧

那天,雜誌踢報某藝人未婚懷孕5個月產檢被發現..
懷孕五個月 男方準備提親 
不知道這是女方的一廂情願呢?
亦或是不小心的有了
還是男女生都有共識
如果,為嫁人而懷孕,如果你也愛他, 婚後幸福與否都得自己承擔
如果,沒有共識的婚姻基礎下, 傳宗接代, 應該再等等 想清楚再說
希望幸福  女孩~~

真理越辯越明..
也許
是人,就會對婚姻期待 
預期對方應該做點什麼 
該負那些責任跟義務
那對男女, 婚後幾個星期.....
那個男人說:
1.我希望兩人的生活是有品質.我願意為你分擔在外的粗重工作, 但在家裡的工作應該是太太去做.
2.我希望你不要個性這麼沖,口氣這麼差的對我說話, 我們必須和平的溝通. 如果你在這樣下去, 我不知道我還可以撐多久,也許有一天會受不了離開.
那個女人說:
1. 何謂生活品質? 家事應該是兩人共同分擔, 彼此的工作份量與時間並都很緊湊,互相分擔才是公平,請勿用你家女人們的標準來橫量每個已婚女人所應盡的責任
2. 個性沖是女人沒有高EQ,她是想到什麼就說什麼的女人.很可惜那個男人娶了這款女性.要後悔也其實也無所謂
3.女人也回說:有一天我也會受不了的離開,我也不知道我可以撐多久.
(事後才想到那男人真的想法真是狗屁不通,那女人會生氣完全是因為男人激怒了她.
"溝通"那個男人做到了嗎?心裡的不高興時,他換化為更過分的手段來刺激那個女人,
亨~
他!沒有溝通
他!用行動來激怒女人
如果婚姻生活只剩這些,怎麼會有人往裡頭跳?
很多事情 
做前 先想想,明辨利害關係
經歷了 才會知道是否値得這麼一跳
不値得 也請早點清醒
別讓婚姻壞了你的人生
別害怕爭吵 真理會越辯越明.
Stand you point if it is not your mistake. Fight for your right.

Go to Hualian

we went to Hualian during Dragon Boat Festival vocation.

When we departed, it's a sunny Sunday morning. Unlucky, when we reach Yilan, it rained heavily.

It's traffic jam on the way to ShihDin interchange. We spent 40 min. to get on high way. We bought breakfast before we get on high way. A fat woman wore same T-shirt color of mine stand side by side with Shawn. When Shawn turned his head to her, he was shocked because he just notice the color of T-shirt and he thought that woman was me. He joked that if I were that fat, I would be better to stay at home. Of course, I give him a long face in return.

It's a 6 hours driving from Taipei to Hualian. Because of rain and mountain road, Shawn could only drove slowly. When we still on our way to Hualian, I asked Shawn if we can cancel this trip because I don't feel like to go any futher. It has been 4 hours driving and it's raining. (My OS is how come it's always raining when we went on a trip?) Shawn said we've book a hotel so we should go... Godness.... Wishing we can arrive any time soon...

Well, finally, finally, we arrived the place we live. Outside of building is so so, but inside of building is remodelled and comfortable. Pine garden is next to this building, so we went there after we unload all luggages. http://www.ettoday.com/2004/08/17/11064-1673104.htm This is link of a reprot about Pinegarden. The view is very good and we took a lot of photo there. It's good place to do something romance.
After that, we are out to look for seafood. I thought the night market in Nanbin seashore should have a lot of fresh seafood. To my surprise, it is not. Only some booths for tourists. It is similar to local night market. So, we just eat something and head to night market in Hualian city. Well, there's a special train road in this night market. There's stores side by side. It's very much interesting than the previous night market. The famous food is 鹅肉先生(mr. Duck) and dumpling (水餃小籠包). Clients line up so it is quicker if you can eat inside rather than take it out. Of course, I did not eat seafood but end up by eating these food. And we bought special favor of Machi from洄瀾暑道. Very yummy! And went back to our hotel. The hotel have bicycles to ride for free. So,
we rode it for a while as the ending of that night.

It's interesting that a guest did not sleep well that night because he heard wired sound that night. That guest told the manager that he slept in his car because of ghost sounds. We're not sure if his word is truth because
we've good sleeping.

Today, we just have 1/2 day in Hualien and we've to head to Taipei. We visited 石雕博物館(很有意思的石雕),柴魚博物館(好吃的涼麵), 七星潭(終於找到考TAKO),花蓮酒廠(烤香腸好吃),有點蕭條的花蓮漁港... 一路上吃吃喝喝的回台北....
On the way back to Yilan, it seems not that far because the weather is nice. so, it just took 2 hrs to Yilan(arrived yilan around 4:30pm). We planned to go home driving along north seashore, so, it's a long driving to home. Someone recommend 梗枋海鮮,so we ate there. It's cheap and yummy, too. It's funny that we did not eat seafood in Hualian but eat in Yilan. I kept reminding Shawn that the car is running out of gas but he did not listen to me. When we departed from yilan, we found most of gas station close at 5pm, so we passed 2 gas stations that are closed. The gas tank is almost empty and we're lucky that there's a gas station is still opening. What a close....

The evening view of north seashore is beautiful. It makes me want to paint. It's a traffic jam after 7:00pm, so Shawn suggested to go to 九份.... Why not? We went there before and never been there at night. The night view is good but many mosqito bits. After that, we arrived home at 11:00pm.

Overall, it's a nice trip~ First trip after wedding..........